Valentine's Day is for lovers.

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Clear@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 26 pts · 202d (2 replies)

Assuming they are not gonna delay it

FreshLight@sh.itjust.works · 10 pts · 202d

Push it back in, then. Easy peasy

spankinspinach@sh.itjust.works · 4 pts · 202d

... again

kibiz0r@midwest.social · 25 pts · 202d (2 replies)

We had tons of help and the easiest baby ever, and I think I managed to pull off two 15-minute gaming sessions in the 4 weeks I had saved up.

Also: company established 3 months paternity leave about 6 months after I came back to work. I’ve never identified more with the boomers who oppose student loan forgiveness out of jealousy.

toynbee@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 202d

I played Forager a lot when my kid was new. I enjoyed the fairly engaging gameplay and the newborn liked all the colors, shapes and sounds.

I also sympathize with the latter half of your post. I was only promised a small amount of paternity leave but, very shortly before my kid was born, my company was purchased by another company that only offered paternity leave to employees who had been there for more than a year. At the time I had been there nine months (I have now been there seven years). I was pissed. Fortunately my direct manager was understanding and gave me a reduced workload for a while.

tynansdtm@lemmy.ml · 1 pts · 202d

I put about 200 hours into an RPG when my son was born. This is because he would only sleep on top of someone, and I was too nervous to sleep with him there.

Uriel_Copy@lemmy.world · 16 pts · 202d

Also you get it free if your baby is born on release day, I heard

atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works · 14 pts · 202d

For penis havers it’s called paternity leave.

ETA: Though I have always felt this to be pointlessly gendered. Everybody should get parental leave regardless.

RizzRustbolt@lemmy.world · 7 pts · 202d

Not in America you can't.

CannonFodder@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 202d (1 reply)

* paternity

WalrusDragonOnABike@reddthat.com · 2 pts · 202d

Porque no los dos?

finickydesert_1@social.vivaldi.net · 6 pts · 202d

I think it would be good for the whole family

Dagnet@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 202d

I still haven't played gta 5. I can wait

destiper@lemmy.ml · 4 pts · 202d (2 replies)
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Remember_the_tooth@lemmy.world · 7 pts · 202d

Trans people exist. More importantly, whatever one calls taking leave of work to support a partner after they've given birth, it's not going to be a holiday. Things like paternity leave exist because of how much work newborns can be.

odious@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 202d

you know, there are countries where that's possible and even normal

mudkip@lemdro.id · 3 pts · 201d

A girlfriend? What the heck is that?

humanspiral@lemmy.ca · 3 pts · 202d (2 replies)

But, what if she goes into labour on release day?

birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 200d (1 reply)

You help 'em out, nine months of downloading is more important

humanspiral@lemmy.ca · 1 pts · 200d

ok, ok... I'll call her a cab.

chuckleslord@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 202d

Yeah, uh, don't got a console so it will not be.

manuallybreathing@lemmy.ml · 1 pts · 202d (1 reply)

getting your girl pregnant sounds awfully consensual, very normal.

Zeon@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 202d

Pearl clutching to the max rn lol