sad_detective_man

u/sad_detective_man@sopuli.xyz
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on Who can relate? · c/autism · 0 pts · 1d

Not fully automated, she just has scheduled posts. I'm pretty sure she's behind the wheel for her discussion posts on c/womensstuff at the very least. She definitely leaves comments still

on Who can relate? · c/autism · 2 pts · 1d

Poorly worded memes aside this really is one of the places on fediverse where you have no enemies. Lady Butterfly is pretty chill and empathetic when she's actually running the account manually so I think she'd get it. I've seen you go to bat for other stigmatized people who to my knowledge you didn't have an intersection in common with so I think you deserve that too.

As for everyone's awareness of personality disorders, it's all a work in progress right? Gotta meet people where they're at. And I hope where you're at feels better soon.

on Who can relate? · c/autism · 5 pts · 1d

Many of us have had turbulent relationships with parents or siblings. Combine that with the cloud of pop-psy disinfo surrounding personality disorders it's bound to happen.

I personally don't know how to call it out without making people feel like I'm blaming them for something real they suffered at the hands of a disregulated person, or an average abuser who they perceive to be disregulated. Coming at the issue from that side just seems like it will only spread the stigma.

Did my repost habits cause this account? I look at my old meme folder I've been compiling since 2019 and how I had initially planned to use it to feed more dormant communities on Lemmy that I had believed at the time were underserved with content. I was ignorant of the magic in Lemmy's different cultural sphere, how slow feeds were good for conversation, or how not bringing my baggage from reddit would help inoculate this place from odious redditor vibes. I can't help but wonder:

Did I cause this shitty, worthless repost bot to happen.

If I did, I'm sorry. Lemmy deserved better than this

Fuck. Wait you're right. I fucking forgot about Rowling, I'm sorry. I just saw the meme and thought "Yeah that's me. I'm a mothafuckin problem😎" and wasn't considering.... well, her

on snack time · c/fnv · 2 pts · 1d

Cards on the table, I'd die of fear if a roided out mailman just started aggressively eating his sleeping bag at me.

on Right angle cat · c/cat · 14 pts · 1d

The home depot near me ran out of these. I had to drive to the next town over just to find they only had them going the other direction. Guess my DIY project is on hold

on ?! · c/birding · 4 pts · 1d

Majestic. No thoughts. Only 😲