Just a reminder, nothing about human sexuality is set in stone .... we are very complicated beings.
What your preference today is not the same as it was a year or two ago and it may not be the same years from now. We grow, we evolve, we change with time, environment, genetics, mentality and circumstances.
Some people maintain their sexual preferences the same all their lives .... some people change over time ... some people are just all over the place.
What I do know is that none of it matters. The common denominator is that you feel love, want love, want love shared with you and you want to share love with others.
So no matter what you think or feel, as long as you are safe and the person you are with loves you and you love them and both of you consent to whatever it is you both want to do .... none of it matters to the rest of us or the world ... who you are at this moment is perfect.
My husband is bi! He doesn't feel a need to act on it (even though I told him that'd be ok). He just needed to be honest and tell someone. Now we joke about cute guys together. It's fun. :)
Congratulations on finding personal acceptance of an important part of one's identity.
Not everyone will be welcoming, though you will one day be able to use this as foresight to guiding yourself towards good people - people who would accept you irl as well as online.
Awesome! I had an awakening moment a while back and I actually feel better about myself because looking back a lot of things make sense now in my personal life.
Maybe, but like you say, is this an absurd parody of an insane rightwing nutjob, or just an insane rightwing nutjob? So hard to tell, and these days I find Onion headlines about what the GOP says completely plausible, no longer reacting "surely not?!" but instead "of course they do."
In any case this is an attitude from yesteryear that should have stayed there and needs calling out.
If it was sarcasm, I'm agreeing with the intent of its author and if it wasn't, I'm gleefully disagreeing.
Lol you people are silly. Nothing to do with politics, I'm left and bi as hell (pan, really) and conservatives can fuck well off with their nonsense. Embrace the sarcasm, accept your own desires, do away with shame, stop worrying about titles and start embracing titties. Stop being afraid, and start fuckin and suckin! Ain't nothing wrong with being greedy and indecisive, just like there ain't nothin' wrong with not being greedy or indecisive. The point is to just accept who you are, regardless of what right wingers are doing over in their temples of shame. As long as you aren't hurting anybody that doesn't want it and there's consent. You have one life, do everything you can and enjoy it.
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unexposedhazard@discuss.tchncs.de · 72 pts · 355d
Now you can enjoy explaining to people how you have double the dating pool but are somehow still single. Unless you arent i guess...
flandish@lemmy.world · 43 pts · 355d
let’s be honest, we’re on lemmy. double zero is still zero.
shittydwarf@sh.itjust.works · 48 pts · 355d
replicator@sh.itjust.works · 22 pts · 355d
the famous "attracted to everyone, but no one attracted to you" 😔
antonim@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 12 pts · 355d
More like, 5% bigger dating pool if you went hetero→bi.
But also 20x the dating pool if gay→bi.
unexposedhazard@discuss.tchncs.de · 7 pts · 355d
I just assumed that OP is so attractive that any man or woman would instantly fall for them.
sag@ani.social · 3 pts · 354d
Bad Luck, I am the most ugliest fucker born in my entire bloodline 😭. Even my Grand Grand Pa was mogging when he was young.
Derpenheim@lemmy.zip · 72 pts · 355d
Congrats, enjoy getting rejected by both genders.
sag@ani.social · 50 pts · 355d
You didn't need to tell the truth on the Internet xD.
eestileib@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 31 pts · 355d
Don't worry, there are way more than two genders to strike out with! Think big!
Apytele@sh.itjust.works · 5 pts · 354d
LuckingFurker@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 52 pts · 355d
Is that every other sexual or twice every sexual?
eRac@lemmings.world · 29 pts · 355d
It means they only finish every other sex. Semisexuals are twice per sex.
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world · 10 pts · 355d
I thought those were hemisexuals this is so confusing
naught@sh.itjust.works · 28 pts · 355d
gaaaaaaaaay
❤️
ininewcrow@lemmy.ca · 23 pts · 355d
Good for you and all my love to you.
Just a reminder, nothing about human sexuality is set in stone .... we are very complicated beings.
What your preference today is not the same as it was a year or two ago and it may not be the same years from now. We grow, we evolve, we change with time, environment, genetics, mentality and circumstances.
Some people maintain their sexual preferences the same all their lives .... some people change over time ... some people are just all over the place.
What I do know is that none of it matters. The common denominator is that you feel love, want love, want love shared with you and you want to share love with others.
So no matter what you think or feel, as long as you are safe and the person you are with loves you and you love them and both of you consent to whatever it is you both want to do .... none of it matters to the rest of us or the world ... who you are at this moment is perfect.
Rozauhtuno@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 18 pts · 355d
Nice. Now go do crimes.
compostgoblin@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 12 pts · 355d
Congrats on the self-acceptance, and welcome to the club! 😊
Una@europe.pub · 11 pts · 355d
Yay!!!!!!! <3
sad_detective_man@leminal.space · 11 pts · 355d
congratulations on your public enemy arc. enjoy being hotter than everyone else 💪
callyral@pawb.social · 11 pts · 355d
congrats! hope you find someone to tell that to irl
nimble@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 11 pts · 355d
polle@feddit.org · 10 pts · 355d
Double the dating pool, nice!
simsalabim@lemmy.world · 9 pts · 355d
Cevilia@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 9 pts · 355d
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world · 9 pts · 355d
Neat! I'm in a similar situation. I have no need to come out to anyone but my wife, and she's cool, so she's the only person who knows me who knows.
abcde_fz@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 355d
Same. Lol I am looking for something profound but that's kind of it. Neat, and same 😊.
lunasandwich@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 355d
My husband is bi! He doesn't feel a need to act on it (even though I told him that'd be ok). He just needed to be honest and tell someone. Now we joke about cute guys together. It's fun. :)
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 354d
it is fun checking out guys with the wife, i will admit
tux7350@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 354d
Hey this isnt the YMCA
JadenSmith@sh.itjust.works · 9 pts · 355d
Congratulations on finding personal acceptance of an important part of one's identity.
Not everyone will be welcoming, though you will one day be able to use this as foresight to guiding yourself towards good people - people who would accept you irl as well as online.
Stay good to yourself.
rumschlumpel@feddit.org · 9 pts · 355d
Neat.
drspawndisaster@sh.itjust.works · 8 pts · 355d
Fuck yeah ✨️
chocrates@piefed.world · 8 pts · 355d
Awesome! No shame, be the best person you can be!
recursive_recursion@piefed.ca · 8 pts · 355d
Congrats!🥳🙌
hperrin@lemmy.ca · 7 pts · 355d
Congrats. You get the best of both worlds.
FearMeAndDecay@literature.cafe · 7 pts · 355d
Congrats on accepting yourself! It’s a tough road, but believe me it’s worth it <3 <3
sexy_peach@feddit.org · 7 pts · 355d
let's be honest bisexual is best
DmMacniel@feddit.org · 7 pts · 355d
Mhm, but what about Pansexual or Asexual?
OrteilGenou@lemmy.world · 11 pts · 355d
Asexual? What's the matter, didn't study hard enough to be A+sexual?
TheAlbatross@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 4 pts · 355d
We even paid for that tutor and this is how you pay us back??
DmMacniel@feddit.org · 2 pts · 355d
Please Asian Dad, don't bring out the slipper!
TheAlbatross@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 1 pts · 355d
You think Asian Dad, I think Jewish Mother, I'm just glad we can share this cultural touchstone together.
DmMacniel@feddit.org · 2 pts · 355d
TheAlbatross@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 1 pts · 355d
嗨呀 and אױ װײ really mean the same thing coming from a parent huh?
TheAlbatross@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 6 pts · 355d
Mazel tov! It's pretty great, not gonna lie
mosthated@feddit.nl · 6 pts · 355d
bsur
chosensilence@pawb.social · 4 pts · 355d
ayy congrats! :D
fantacyde@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 4 pts · 355d
Awesome! I had an awakening moment a while back and I actually feel better about myself because looking back a lot of things make sense now in my personal life.
HakunaHafada@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 3 pts · 355d
Congrats! 💪
iamdefinitelyoverthirteen@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 354d
In the same boat. Comfortable with who and what I am, not comfortable with the world knowing.
SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 355d
Congrats on being greedy and indecisive - it's the best!
davidagain@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 355d
Congrats on misinterpreting other sexualities as character flaws.
If you had to decide not to find people of the same gender sexually attractive, you're not as straight as you like to think.
SuperNovaStar@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 4 pts · 355d
I could have sworn that the comment you were replying to was satire. I suppose that due to Poe's Law I can't be sure of that though...
davidagain@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 355d
Maybe, but like you say, is this an absurd parody of an insane rightwing nutjob, or just an insane rightwing nutjob? So hard to tell, and these days I find Onion headlines about what the GOP says completely plausible, no longer reacting "surely not?!" but instead "of course they do."
In any case this is an attitude from yesteryear that should have stayed there and needs calling out.
If it was sarcasm, I'm agreeing with the intent of its author and if it wasn't, I'm gleefully disagreeing.
SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 354d
Lol you people are silly. Nothing to do with politics, I'm left and bi as hell (pan, really) and conservatives can fuck well off with their nonsense. Embrace the sarcasm, accept your own desires, do away with shame, stop worrying about titles and start embracing titties. Stop being afraid, and start fuckin and suckin! Ain't nothing wrong with being greedy and indecisive, just like there ain't nothin' wrong with not being greedy or indecisive. The point is to just accept who you are, regardless of what right wingers are doing over in their temples of shame. As long as you aren't hurting anybody that doesn't want it and there's consent. You have one life, do everything you can and enjoy it.
peaceful_world_view@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 355d
Lucky
petrol_sniff_king@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 1 pts · 355d
I thought this was the intro to a new Terminator movie.
Also, congrats, yo.
FreddiesLantern@leminal.space · 1 pts · 195d
And we accept you too.
krunklom@lemmy.zip · -3 pts · 355d
Bisexuality killed my parents.
callyral@pawb.social · 5 pts · 355d
i dont think that joke/reference makes sense here
sag@ani.social · 3 pts · 355d
Huh?