They need to do way instain mother> who divorce thier hubbys, becuse these hubby cant fright back? It was on the news this mroing a mother in ar who had divorce her three husbands, they are taking the three hubby back to new york too lady to rest. my pary are with the bros who lost there friend ; i am truley sorry for your lots
Kids have a simpler way of interpreting the world, which is usually what couples need (many failed marriages are the result of explicit social loops or implicit mental loops which aren't broken).
Adults usually infer and attach bias based on their own experiences.
Most advice is a pretty generic reminder to listen to your partner and treat them like a person. That's something you know is a good idea as a concept pretty early on in life, but it's just real easy to get complacent.
For one, it shouldn't matter whether the other person who's bad at the game is a kid, a senior, impaired, a noob, a busy adult or just someone who enjoys that game without putting in the effort to become really good at it: If you're insulting someone over a game, you should sort out your priorities. I used to do that, because I was a miserable knobhead, but it really doesn't make the game more enjoyable and made me even more miserable.
But secondly, it's particularly bad with kids. Yes, life can be unpleasant, and learning to deal with other people's disapproval is important, but there has to be a better way to ease them into that.
(Beating down on the impaired is also fucked up, obviously. Life has dealt them a shit hand already, so how about making an effort to include them instead? I promise, it's more mutually enjoyable. Few good things are as infectious as the joy of someone used to being shut out with superficial pity. That's not relevant to the topic, but I felt it's worth mentioning.)
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bytesonbike@discuss.online · 136 pts · 231d
I'm actually 3.5 middle schoolers in a trenchcoat.
pelespirit@sh.itjust.works · 115 pts · 231d
Nice to meet you Vincent Adultman
LORDSMEGMA@sh.itjust.works · 47 pts · 231d
I did a business!
Iheartcheese@lemmy.world · 74 pts · 231d
I work retail. I pray I'm arguing with children because I don't get to cuss them out at work.
tomiant@piefed.social · 54 pts · 231d
How is divorces formed? How is divorces formed? How prenup get anulad?
Kolanaki@pawb.social · 24 pts · 231d
They need to do way instain mother> who divorce thier hubbys, becuse these hubby cant fright back? It was on the news this mroing a mother in ar who had divorce her three husbands, they are taking the three hubby back to new york too lady to rest. my pary are with the bros who lost there friend ; i am truley sorry for your lots
Ach@lemmy.world · 8 pts · 231d
Wait I was supposed to put anal in my prenup? I know porn teaches us to love it but I am struggling to get past the poop part.
theuniqueone@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 50 pts · 231d
Wondering if the advice was any good?
Whostosay@sh.itjust.works · 41 pts · 231d
I honestly bet it was better than most.
Zozano@aussie.zone · 29 pts · 231d
Unironically.
Kids have a simpler way of interpreting the world, which is usually what couples need (many failed marriages are the result of explicit social loops or implicit mental loops which aren't broken).
Adults usually infer and attach bias based on their own experiences.
slaacaa@lemmy.world · 19 pts · 231d
Delete gym, hit the lawyer, get a facebook
REDACTED@infosec.pub · 1 pts · 231d
CrowAirbrush@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 231d
Woosh
BarbecueCowboy@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 8 pts · 230d
Honestly, maybe...
Most advice is a pretty generic reminder to listen to your partner and treat them like a person. That's something you know is a good idea as a concept pretty early on in life, but it's just real easy to get complacent.
jubilationtcornpone@sh.itjust.works · 3 pts · 230d
If it were, "Share your stuffies and go out for ice cream", it would be far from the worst marriage advice I've ever heard.
Mrselfdestruct25@lemmynsfw.com · 38 pts · 231d
AOL sent my dad a transcript of me in a chatroom saying Will Smith looks like a dick with ears.
spicytuna62@lemmy.world · 19 pts · 231d
If you were my child, I'd have picked you up from school four hours early and taken you out for ice cream.
Xella@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 231d
Lmfao I can't even imagine this happening to me 😹 I said some terrible things
BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today · 3 pts · 229d
Hey! That's my go-to description of Florida Senator Rick Scott! With googly eyes!
WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today · 29 pts · 231d
I was a kid when I was getting yelled at by confused adults online, who never had the thought that maybe the guy so bad at the game, is an actual kid.
jubilationtcornpone@sh.itjust.works · 14 pts · 230d
Playing video games with my nephews
Me: Get obliterated because I suck
Nephew #1: "Ha ha!"
Nephew #2: "What a fucking noob."
Wife: Appears seemingly from nowhere "Excuse me!? Do I need to talk to your mom about your language?"
Nephews 1&2: "No ma'am."
Me: 😏
luciferofastora@feddit.org · 2 pts · 229d
For one, it shouldn't matter whether the other person who's bad at the game is a kid, a senior, impaired, a noob, a busy adult or just someone who enjoys that game without putting in the effort to become really good at it: If you're insulting someone over a game, you should sort out your priorities. I used to do that, because I was a miserable knobhead, but it really doesn't make the game more enjoyable and made me even more miserable.
But secondly, it's particularly bad with kids. Yes, life can be unpleasant, and learning to deal with other people's disapproval is important, but there has to be a better way to ease them into that.
(Beating down on the impaired is also fucked up, obviously. Life has dealt them a shit hand already, so how about making an effort to include them instead? I promise, it's more mutually enjoyable. Few good things are as infectious as the joy of someone used to being shut out with superficial pity. That's not relevant to the topic, but I felt it's worth mentioning.)
rumba@lemmy.zip · 18 pts · 230d
This goes really well with the post a few lines up "TIL: 54% of American Adults Read Below 6th Grade-Levels"
She was probably very relatable to them.
Ceruleum@lemmy.wtf · 3 pts · 229d
Time well spend.