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Excuse the shitty emojis, this is a post about scented products!

So perfumes, fragrance, cologne, deodorant, body wash, soap, lotions, potions, lip balm, make-up....anything you apply to yourself because it smells good and makes you happy, but also what products make you you gag?

For me Palmers cocoa butter and coconut oils smell amazing, but I can find a bit too much sometimes, and have to restrict my use

Perfumes, I have too many to list, but I love some not all florals, woody, spicy, dirty musk, boozy and amber notes. I'm a sucker for jasmine, patchouli and earthy scents

Also scented soap, I'm quite partial to The Highland Soap Company products as they do wild raspberry, seaweed and heather which smell fab

Tom Fords Tuscan Leather perfume makes me nauseous, after I wore it once while exercising

I'm also not keen scented deodorants, because they interfere with any perfumes I want to wear, and also they're too 'clean' and 'pretty'

What are your favourite and most reviled scented products?

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Arcanepotato@crazypeople.online · 8 pts · 13d (3 replies)

I guess this is something that is very regional but the use of perfumes is not really considered acceptable in most public settings where I live. Most workplaces are scent free, for example.

Not that I don't enjoy scented products that don't linger! I tend to ecylypus, citrus or lavender for body soap. Patchouli or eucalyptus for deodorant, but I can basically only smell it when I apply it. It's still nice lol.

Anything aerosolized or carried in alcohols gives me migraines (and nausea). Even my spouse's beard products will make me feel sick so he's got to look at the ingredients before buying.

If I want to wear a scent at home to feel nice or whatever it will be something solid. I love jasmine and sandlewood. I have a few solid perfumes with the following profiles:

  • patchouli/pepper/vanilla
  • jasmine/vanilla/rose
  • mint/neroli/sandlewood/
quinacridone@mander.xyz · 2 pts · 13d (2 replies)

I do sympathise with you having migraines triggered by aerosols/alcohols, my bf used to love my perfumes, but he had surgery which has affected his breathing and now finds fragrance suffocating He'd rather smell BO (not mine) than anything scented

Solid perfumes are quite unusual though, I know Diptyque makes them, but I've never come across any other brands selling them.

Arcanepotato@crazypeople.online · 3 pts · 12d (1 reply)

Mine are from Lush but I've seen others at Sephora. They also carry perfume in oil carriers.

quinacridone@mander.xyz · 1 pts · 12d

I didn't know lush did solid perfumes, I usually avoid the shops as they are very pungent, but I'll dig deep and check them out πŸ‘

Pipster@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 6 pts · 12d (8 replies)

I never get the chance to talk about this! I'm gonna go a bit mad with detail I'm afraid...

I love perfumes, its kind of another form of self expression for me which I vary depending on season and mood/vibe. I do have to admit I cheat a little, there is a sustainable (and vegan) brand of perfume near me that make copies of perfumes (and their own originals) and sell them in refillable bottles so that you can get a discount on refill. This just makes it a lot more accessible to try out new perfumes and not feel guilty, even if it might not be as long lasting or as powerful (for example its something like Β£18 (Β£15 for refill) for 30ml vs Β£70 for the original, but they do copies of far more expensive ones too).

My absolute favourite this summer has been (the copy of) Mugler Alien Goddess, its very vanilla, coconut and jasmine, super light and summery and just... yeah I absolutely love it.

On that theme I do like the original Mugler Alien as well, much more powerful and heavy, lots of jasmine again but has that "amber" note that makes it much more rich. Love to wear that one on a night out.

Last winter I did really like a Dior Ambre Nuit copy. Having smelled it again just now to remind myself I'm a bit... eh? Maybe just not into the mood or maybe my taste changed a bit or just the season but right now I really don't wanna wear it. Its very amber and heavy, smells super fancy and elegant and posh. Maybe I'll warm to it again later.

I also really like a perfume I got from Lush, its their Turmeric Latte, again this is a very late autumnal/winter kinda vibe. Its very vanilla, sweet and spicy - almost more chai latte than turmeric, but it smells so warm and cozy. I loved wearing this as my every day fragrance last autumn.

As for most reviled, any of those damn Impulse body sprays that bring to mind girls in the mid 2000s basically bathing themselves in. I'm also not too keen on perfumes or body sprays that smell solely of fruit, like cherry or strawberry, again its very reminiscent of those cheap body sprays.

Deodorant I do use a scented one but its very subtle and mostly just smells a bit like the fabric conditioner I use when I wash my clothes so its not like its overpowering.

I also do like having a bit of smell in my hair, I've had so many people comment on me smelling nice when I've used a tiny bit of banana scented hair mask/conditioner just to help combat some frizzy bits (Garnier Banana Hair Food).

As for non-body smells. I do like bubble baths with nice smells and I love having candles on in the evening or in the bath too. I also make a sugar scrub for exfoliating from sugar, coconut oil and a few drops of a nice smelling essential oil blend - my current one smells a lot like some kind of orange sweet.

I do like scented soaps too, particularly from Lush, although I do find that some are amazing and some are absolutely awful. They did a watermelon one recently with some profits going to medical services in Gaza. I loved the message but I thought the soap itself smelt awful... Lush do some really amazing scents but I rarely buy much from them as I don't really have much need for their actual products annoyingly.

One scented thing I have which was kind of unexpected was is my Nyx buttermelt blush. None of the rest of my makeup really smells of anything but that one smells really sweet and fruity and its a really nice little moment when I'm getting ready.

I also have reed diffusers around the house, current one is a rhubarb and elderflower one which smells amazing.

So yeah, love fragrances, I don't really know exactly what I don't like, mostly what I do. Florals, jasmine, coconut, banana, fruit (so long as its not the only note), amber, sandalwood, bergamot. Not really smelt anything with leather, musk or tobacco notes, the fact that none of my stuff ever features them must mean I don't ever pick it out...

quinacridone@mander.xyz · 4 pts · 11d (7 replies)

I think we were separated at birth, and I love the details!

I've got maybe around a hundred or so different perfumes, mostly full bottles but also decants, I'm quite jealous that you can get dupes so easily, definitely more cost effective

I have several from Serge Lutens, Frederic Malle, Chanel, Mona di orio, Dior

But I've not been able to wear mine these days due to my bf breathing issue, but I did spray my faves into those nasal 'sniffer' things (like a decongestant tube) so I have a choice of some for on the go enjoyment

When I was still regularly wearing them, I'd mix it up and wear heavier fragrance in the summer as sometimes it 'blooms' differently, but as you point out it can be a bit too much, which is why I have such bad memories of Tuscan leather

The lush perfume sounds interesting so I'll check it out, also what is the vegan perfume house you mentioned? Sounds like it could be right up my street, and I like the refillable bottle approach

I forgot about hair products, the hair food smells delicious, I have the coconut one, and the papaya, I normally don't like things so overtly foodie, but on my hair it seems to work, and it helps that the bf hasn't yet been bothered by it yet πŸ‘

Pipster@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 4 pts · 11d (1 reply)

I definitely don't have that much, thats really impressive, but I'm definitely increasing my numbers bit by bit! I know some people have their forever go-tos but I do love to use them to express myself so I don't really see myself sticking to any particular one forever so I imagine I'll end up with a good variety at some point.

I think the hair stuff works because its generally a bit more subtle unless you go overboard, and its a much lighter fragrance. I do also really like the papaya one but the banana one is better for my hair.

The place I get my dupes from is Eden Perfumes, they have a location in London and one in Brighton but they also do their stuff online, including refills.

What you say about the perfume being different in summer is interesting, I never thought about it being the season itself with different humidity and temperatures that might influence how it smells. I guess in winter too it clings to all the extra clothes you wear vs summer.

quinacridone@mander.xyz · 3 pts · 11d

Thanks for the link πŸ‘

OryxAndCake@slrpnk.net · 2 pts · 7d (4 replies)

I’d mix it up and wear heavier fragrance in the summer as sometimes it β€˜blooms’ differently

I did this recently with Mauboussin Mauboussin, just a single spritz to the chest during one of the hottest and most humid days of the year so far, and it was incredible!

Long trails of ylang ylang were subtly winding away from my skin and that plummy amber was a soft, intimate bubble that somehow became aquatic and watery, like fragrant bath water.

Any more than that single spritz and it would have been upsetting though, it's faaaar too heavy for heat.

quinacridone@mander.xyz · 2 pts · 7d (3 replies)

Yep, I think the dose makes the poison in these cases, a judicious spritz definitely avoids overwhelm.

I've also found some summery fragrances can take on an icy quality in winter too

I think that's one of the interesting things with fragrance, different temperatures and seasons can reveal different facets

OryxAndCake@slrpnk.net · 1 pts · 7d (2 replies)

Oooh, what's your favourite icy cold summer in winter frag?

quinacridone@mander.xyz · 1 pts · 7d (1 reply)

Tuberose Criminalle from Serge Lutens. Its a tuberose bomb that leans in to the cooler side rather than bosomy floral, I've seen it described as 'florist fridge' with, I think, the notes of wintergreen bringing the chill

In summer I find it quite cooling and fresh, which is strange for a white floral, but in winter I get the creamy white bosomy notes

I find green fragrances and vetivers less 'fuzzy' in winter, I think the cold helps to bring out the different notes

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OryxAndCake@slrpnk.net · 2 pts · 6d

I need to find somebody who likes tuberose that I can test that on, none of those notes work on me but I'm so curious now, haha.

ZDL@lazysoci.al · 6 pts · 12d (3 replies)

I really don't like many artificial scents at all. Most perfumes and perfumed products just make me wrinkle my nose and possibly move away from the wearer, depending on the strength

The few scents I like are floral and/or fruity in nature without a hint of "musk". And they have to smell natural, not artificial.

quinacridone@mander.xyz · 4 pts · 12d (2 replies)

You can get natural perfumes but they are expensive. One thing I've found is that the 'high end' and niche fragrances (expensive ones) smell better, as in they have high amounts of natural ingredients alongside the synthetics

But the majority of perfumes are straight up synthetic and often not formulated well

ZDL@lazysoci.al · 4 pts · 12d (1 reply)

And every North American perfume seems to want to insert "musk" into the mix and I HATE THAT SCENT.

quinacridone@mander.xyz · 1 pts · 11d

A dirty musk is nice though, in a beasty way!

i_dont_want_to@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 5 pts · 13d (3 replies)

I usually like unscented body care products, but like a tiny bit of perfume occasionally!

Berries, vanilla, or amber are all good. I do occasionally like gourmands. If I'm feeling something a little different, some dirt or petrichor stuff is great.

I haven't had a whole lot of luck with Tom Ford fragrances. Insult to injury, it is EXPENSIVE.

Leather scents are difficult for me. For example, Lush Vegan Leather Jacket was horrid to my nose. It was like an ashtray.

I used to love Lush Goddess, but over time it feels like I am just smelling wood. Which is... Fine, but I miss when I smelled more of a blend of flowers and wood instead of just a whisper of flower.

Gourmands are hit and miss for me. Anything that is supposed to smell like a milk product is a no-no. I like more of a vague "baked good" smell over something more specific.

Lush Lord of Misrule and Karma, Burberry Her, and Black Opium are ones I love that are more mainstream. Possets Howl and Sorce Vampire Husband are the strange ones that I really like.

I don't wear a lot, so I like getting sample sizes and decants! Bonus, it really satisfies my desire for options without me overconsuming.

My smell preferences are a lot lighter in the summer versus the winter. Something about the heat makes the fragrances so much stronger and can make them overwhelming.

quinacridone@mander.xyz · 3 pts · 13d (2 replies)

I've been relegated to unscented everything (or as best as I can) for the last 2 years, so have been unable to wear my perfumes

Gormands can be lovely! But I like mine not too sweet, I don't want to smell like a penny mix, and I understand about the milk... have you ever smelled etat libre d'orange- secretions magnifique? There's milk, blood (I think) and semen, I definitely got milk as for the others...🀷 You have been warned!

I'm glad I'm not the only one to not like Tom Ford, I think they are a bit over powering which is fortunate due to the price

You're certainly more sensible in choosing minis instead of full bottles, but I have managed to get some good deals on eBay

I understand the need for lighter scents in summer, but I still enjoy my heavy hitters with plenty of amber, spices etc, although I think with the temperatures we're getting these days I may readjust when I start wearing fragrance again

i_dont_want_to@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 13d (1 reply)

I have not been brave enough to try Secretions Magnifique! 🀣

I am intrigued but not enough to go out of my way to get it. I think it's the semen that stopped me!

quinacridone@mander.xyz · 2 pts · 13d

Personally, i don't think you're missing anything at all. Its one of those 'this perfume is so daring and avant garde' and it gets talked about, but no one actually wears it

Drusas@fedia.io · 5 pts · 13d (1 reply)

I don't like people to smell like much of anything, self included.

quinacridone@mander.xyz · 3 pts · 13d

Fair enough!

Taleya@aussie.zone · 3 pts · 13d (5 replies)

Vanilla. Give it all of it.

quinacridone@mander.xyz · 1 pts · 13d (4 replies)

Not too sweet though for me, have you got a particular favourite you want to share?

Taleya@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 13d (3 replies)

Don't know if they sell it where you are, but if ypu ever see the Sundae vanilla, kakadu plum and finger lime body wash, get on it. It comes like whipped cream and is decadent as all hell

quinacridone@mander.xyz · 1 pts · 12d (2 replies)

I did a quick search and its available online, so there's a chance it'll be in a shop so I can have a smell

It does sound good and also has AHAs and vit c, so definite plus πŸ‘

Taleya@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 12d (1 reply)

I'm ASD with a smell trigger and it is wonderfully thick and delightful but ymmv

quinacridone@mander.xyz · 2 pts · 11d

I'll be careful with it, I wouldn't want another Tuscan leather nightmare πŸ˜„

dkppunk@piefed.social · 3 pts · 12d (1 reply)

I’m pretty particular about scents and fragrances. Anything that is floral gives me headaches and makes me itchy and sneeze.

Fruity is my favorite scent and it doesn’t usually bother me, sometimes it irritates my skin with some ingredients. I love anything with a citrus scent, it makes me feel fresh and tasty lol

quinacridone@mander.xyz · 2 pts · 11d

Weirdly I'm the opposite, I've never got along with citrus, apart from bergamot, love, love, love that!

CultLeader4Hire@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 12d (1 reply)

I love plain rose scent, orange and jasmine is incredible. Honey and almond is probably my favorite soap scent. Black Opium has been my signature perfume for a few years now and not tired of it.

quinacridone@mander.xyz · 1 pts · 12d

Big natural florals are lovely, and I love jasmine so much and have a few, but I've never found one that truly replicates jasmine flowering on the plant. I'd sell my soul for that

Almond is nice too, I have a perfume that has a good dollop of it and it makes my mouth water