There's a part of my soul that needs 'cat lady' culture to be adopted by the mainstream like 'gamer' culture was.

Given how ubiquitous cat memes are, I thought we are there now

"gamer culture" was not adopted by the mainstream; video games were. The culture of mainstream gamers remains distinct from the old culture

Is cat lady "culture" not already mainstream?

Besides having cats, what are the other elements of this culture?

Play The Cat Lady to combine them both! And it's even discounted at the moment.

there's a part of my soul that thinks cats are mid snakes >