Boredom is universal

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xxce2AAb@feddit.dk · 72 pts · 159d (20 replies)

Hobbies: They're great.

wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world · 46 pts · 159d (12 replies)

Great, now instead of just being bored, I get to manage three servers and two dozen public-facing services that I have to maintain for a growing number of users, along with the physical servers themselves, as any cog in this machine may break and burst into flames like a house of cards... and still be bored with the added stress.

Yaaaaay, hobbies...

xxce2AAb@feddit.dk · 34 pts · 159d (4 replies)

You may have chosen the wrong one.

wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world · 22 pts · 159d (3 replies)

This hobby would be significantly better if it came with a six-figure salary

xxce2AAb@feddit.dk · 27 pts · 159d (2 replies)

I could be wrong, but I'm pretty sure that's called a "job".

wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world · 9 pts · 159d

You'd think yeah :P

umbrella@lemmy.ml · 5 pts · 158d
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spittingimage@lemmy.world · 16 pts · 158d (1 reply)

Ever thought about shitcanning all of that and just folding some paper cranes?

wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world · 10 pts · 158d

I'm in too deep. Save yourself!

BarbecueCowboy@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 4 pts · 159d (1 reply)

If the cogs didn't break occasionally, I feel like it wouldn't be a very good hobby.

wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 159d

Yeah, though anxiety and self-perfection make every task dreadful and stressful when anyone else is impacted; doesn't matter if it's the family vaultwarden instance or a game server needing an update to become available again, all of it is AHHHHHHHH

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agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works · 2 pts · 158d

You misunderstood, this wasn't an analogy. The secret to enrichment is literally putting raw hamburger in a pumpkin and rolling it around your home.

toynbee@piefed.social · 2 pts · 158d (1 reply)

What services?

wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 158d

I run basically all my stuff through docker containers, and have...

NAS:

  • BentoPDF
  • Clam-Shell (discord bot using clamav)
  • FreshRSS
  • Haven (discord alternative)
  • Kitchen Owl
  • Linkwarden
  • LubeLogger
  • MeshCentral (for me to admin systems)
  • Nametag (relationship organizer and visual map)
  • Owncast (streaming, for myself)
  • Plex
  • Radicale
  • Red (discord multifunction bot)
  • RustDesk
  • Snipe-IT
  • Uptime Kuma
  • Vaultwarden
  • Wallos (subscription manager)
  • YourLastFM (for myself)

ThinkServer - Proxmox:

  • Debian 13, running BOINC
  • Home Assistant
  • Windows Server 2022, running Motor Town dedi

VPS:

  • American Truck Simulator dedi
  • BeamMP dedi x7
  • Duplicati (for backups)
  • FiveM dedi
  • Minecraft Bedrock dedi
  • Wireguard

I have stuff offline like a Satisfactory dedi, and the docker container for Euro Truck Simulator is broken for whatever reason... and stuff that is running for admin purposes that I won't list since security and all that (and a couple 'bare metal' services too). My users are family, close friends, and members of my discord/haven gaming community that I have brought in over the last few years.

bridgeburner@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 158d (6 replies)

Y'all have money left for hobbies?

xxce2AAb@feddit.dk · 7 pts · 158d

Well. There's always humming, I suppose.

justsquigglez@leminal.space · 6 pts · 158d (1 reply)

Y'all have time left for hobbies?

bridgeburner@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 157d

Yeah I have a 4-day work week. Not with full pay of course, just 80% as well.

osanna@lemmy.vg · 5 pts · 158d (2 replies)

one of my hobbies is reading. Yarrrrr... it's free :)

ltxrtquq@lemmy.ml · 2 pts · 157d (1 reply)

Yeah, we all know about the library already.

Slovene@feddit.nl · 2 pts · 157d

What if they're stealing the reading? What if they go to the local bookstore, read for a while, and then put the book back on the shelf and leave? We have no idea what kind of a criminal we could be dealing with here.

rumba@lemmy.zip · 35 pts · 159d (14 replies)

Hell yes, get rid of anything that's an algorithm.

If you can't run out of content on the platform you're on, it's a bad thing.

Use youtube clients that follow users

Browse text platforms that let you follow communities.

TT, IG, /all, and shorts are where your brain goes to die.

tja@sh.itjust.works · 17 pts · 159d (13 replies)

Everything that's on your phone has an algorithm. It's like saying I don't eat things with chemicals in it.

schnurrito@discuss.tchncs.de · 16 pts · 158d (1 reply)

Technically correct, but I think you know what the above user meant.

gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de · 1 pts · 158d

recommendation algorithm

though i reckon lemmy has one too, just a more transparent one

spittingimage@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 158d (5 replies)

Group chats with Friends? Games? Ebooks? There might be algorithms associated with those somewhere, but you'd have to go digging for them.

tja@sh.itjust.works · 1 pts · 158d (4 replies)

Chats: an algorithm decides the order of the messages shown Games: a lot of algorithms everywhere. Ebooks: eg algorithms are used to decode the drm of you are using a Kindle.

You don't need to dig very deep.

Carrot@lemmy.today · 3 pts · 158d (2 replies)

A pedant's job is never done, huh?

mfed1122@discuss.tchncs.de · 0 pts · 158d (1 reply)

We should use technical words in a technically correct way, or else public discourse becomes obscured and confused. Like what Discord did with the word "Server", it's not innocuous even when people are doing it by accident.

Carrot@lemmy.today · 3 pts · 157d

Language isn't set in stone, and when people use the term "algorithm" when referring to the system in place that decides what content is put in front of them, people understand what they mean. No one gets this algorithm mixed up with the math/computer science term algorithm.

The discord one is slightly different, but I'd argue it isn't that harmful, as Discord "servers" function effectively as a server from a user point of view. The only problem with this nomenclature is that it somewhat implies to a layperson that there is some form of privacy/security in place, which there isn't.

kboy101222@sh.itjust.works · 1 pts · 158d
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rumba@lemmy.zip · 1 pts · 158d (4 replies)

Ahh yes, the old "things are bad so we shouldn't worry about making them any better" argument.

tja@sh.itjust.works · 3 pts · 158d (3 replies)

That's not what I wrote. It's just that they were complaining about the wrong thing. Algorithms are not bad, just how they are sometimes used is bad. Most of the time they are applied in a good or neutral way.

rumba@lemmy.zip · 1 pts · 157d (2 replies)

Well I didn't write anything about phones, I was talking about social media echo-chambers, but you took that there.

tja@sh.itjust.works · 1 pts · 157d (1 reply)

Okay then let's get rid of the phone, it was just an example either way. Every program consists of algorithms, no matter where it is installed: in your phone, car or TV. In a street light, a digital thermometer or a smoke detector.

You wrote:

get rid of anything that's an algorithm.

If we do that, no digital thing will work anymore. It's not just social media. Or phones. It's everything.

rumba@lemmy.zip · 1 pts · 157d

get rid of anything that’s an algorithm.

you get my point, yet you refuse to get my point, we have nothing left here to discuss

Greddan@feddit.org · 23 pts · 159d (9 replies)
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Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works · 38 pts · 159d (3 replies)

Or "ground beef" or "hamburger meat"

One thing we rarely if ever call it is "minced" or "mince."

To my American mind that suggests it's been cut into tiny pieces with a knife, not ground through a grinder.

Mincing is something you do to an onion, or in stiletto heels and a knee-trappingly-tight skirt.

Zachariah@lemmy.world · 27 pts · 159d (1 reply)

this guy doesn’t mince words

horn_e4_beaver@discuss.tchncs.de · 8 pts · 158d

Or mince around.

jivandabeast@lemmy.browntown.dev · 6 pts · 158d

I feel like "hamburger meat" implies the inclusion of seasoning whereas "ground beef" is literally just the meat

crank0271@lemmy.world · 14 pts · 159d

Largely yes. Sometimes "ground meat."

alsimoneau@lemmy.ca · 3 pts · 158d (2 replies)

In French we call it "chopped steak"

VitoRobles@lemmy.today · 4 pts · 158d (1 reply)

Are you sure it's not called a royale with steak? Because of the metric system?

HarneyToker@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 158d

Chopped Royale 

binarytobis@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 158d

In the places I’ve lived “raw hamburger” is pretty rare. Ground beef and hamburger meat are common.

cdf12345@lemmy.zip · 20 pts · 158d (5 replies)

Ever had a conversation with a person about two different topics at the same time but each topic is being talked about in a different app, in real time?

VitoRobles@lemmy.today · 10 pts · 158d (4 replies)

My wife does this.

Our text DMs are about the kids.

Our family chat DMs (Zulip, which is a open-source version of Slack/discord) is full of memes.

baggachipz@sh.itjust.works · 6 pts · 158d (3 replies)

(Zulip, which is a open-source version of Slack/discord)

Did you do this to brag, or to avoid the FOSS Enforcement Patrol?

VitoRobles@lemmy.today · 5 pts · 158d

Ah force of habit. I just came from a conference and I had to explain Zulip a dozen times to people.

Slovene@feddit.nl · 3 pts · 157d (1 reply)

Mentioning his wife was the brag part.

cdf12345@lemmy.zip · 3 pts · 157d

Me and his wife use signal

lath@lemmy.world · 15 pts · 159d

Try eating your keeper.

pruwybn@discuss.tchncs.de · 9 pts · 158d

I mean, it would make for an interesting day.

vivalapivo@lemmy.today · 7 pts · 158d (1 reply)

Please keep your dirty hamburgers away from my virgin pumpkin

pruwybn@discuss.tchncs.de · 3 pts · 157d

!brandnewsentence@lemmy.world

Francislewwis@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 158d

That scrolling the same apps loop is way more relatable than most people want to admit.

lemmy_outta_here@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 157d

I have now deleted my accounts, but there was at least one time that I was browsing reddit and got really bored, so I opened a new tab to check out reddit.

I looked at the front page posts and was like, "Oh yeah."

nialv7@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 159d (3 replies)

No, the tiger does not need "enrichment", it needs to be set free. Do not accept being caged as the normal and don't be gaslit into thinking the toys you get is "enrichment".

Reject the premise altogether.

yakko@feddit.uk · 20 pts · 158d (1 reply)

"I angrily reject this joke in a politically awakened manner."

This could be the type specimen of a Lemmy comment

swab148@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 4 pts · 158d

Sounds like someone needs a meat pumpkin!

osanna@lemmy.vg · 3 pts · 158d

I'm with you. There's a word for this. It's called zoochosis, a play on psychosis. The animals in zoos play with their faeces, eat their faeces, pace, sway etc, because they're BORED FUCKING SHITLESS. A tiger, like all animals, do not deserve to be locked up in prison and gawked at by idiots with cameras for the crime of being born the wrong species. They're smart, emotional, deep animals. They are emotionally intelligent. They have feelings. Fuck zoos so fucking hard.

null@lemmy.org · 4 pts · 159d (4 replies)

Take a break from social media.

thethrilloftime69@feddit.online · 5 pts · 159d (3 replies)

Does Lemmy count as social media?

schnurrito@discuss.tchncs.de · 4 pts · 158d

I think so, yes.

I have been posting things on websites that allow the general public to participate since my childhood, that is, for more than 20 years. At the time I was familiar with "forums", slightly later also "wikis" and "blogs"… I have no idea why or even when exactly the world started to insist on that strange term "social media" to describe some poorly defined subset of such websites. 🤔

VitoRobles@lemmy.today · 2 pts · 158d (1 reply)

Controversial take here:

In my opinion, if you're just here to shit post and not actually use your "socializing" brain, then no. Like when you're picking the weird options in Skyrim and then restoring your last save.

But if you're committing to the actions and this is your "real playthrough", then yes.

thethrilloftime69@feddit.online · 2 pts · 158d

Yeah i do sometimes just shit post on here, but I'm also trying to treat it like forums in the pre social media age when you could recognize a few users just by their user name. I am also trying to contribute to the "community" aspect.

Kolanaki@pawb.social · 3 pts · 158d

The 4 apps I jump between:

Connect, Voyager, Raccoon, and Summit.

Sam_Bass@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 157d

Oh I have a literal ton of stuff I could/should be doing. Haven't had any would for a long time though

Angryhumanoid@fedinsfw.app · 2 pts · 159d

I have an app for that, I mostly just do the daily rewards now tho.

bhamlin@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 158d

Instructions unclear. Now have salmonella.