I tried messaging a Finlander about a very successful mod for a videogame to thank them for making it. DM's closed, comments disabled, tracks buried 😅 they ain't having it. authentic experience
As a Finn I can say that you’re only supposed to give ”constructive feedback” which means pointing out mistakes. Any compliment will be taken as sarcasm.
I remember when the internet was new, I'd make friends with random people I'd "meet". Like, I'd play Diablo with some rando on battle.net and then we'd stay in touch. Now it seems more ephemeral. Maybe it's just because I'm older.
As a young teen, I arranged irl meets with people from band guestbooks and friends-of-friends-of-friends from MSN pretty frequently.
Dumb, looking back, but all turned out to be who they said they were and good times were had. Would be super concerned if my kid did the same and he's literally an adult now, so idk.
One of my best friends I met in a DRG lobby. We don't really even play DRG anymore, we do talk almost every day, sometimes they call and talk with me while I fall asleep (wildly different time zones). Don't even know their name lol
I can’t remember where j first heard it but internet friends are weird, like i know some of mine deepest darkest secrets, yet i don’t even know if really has legs
My first internet experience was ‘96ish. My buddy’s dad was an HP engineer and had the stuff before a lot of people did. My buddy’s dad logged on, went into a chatroom, and the first thing I ever saw was a sex roleplay of Peter Pan and Wendy and some incest porn. Since then, nothing on the World Wide Web has surprised me. Been a few things I could have gone without seeing though 😕
I met my best friends over the internet in my late 20s during the pandemic. But it was a d&d lfg group and we're just the ones who actually played. I actually spend a month living with one of them when I moved out west last year
I had a really good DND group during the pandemic. Probably the best game I ever ran. But it was online, and when the pandemic called down they all just drifted away. Very sad about it, honestly.
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LibertyLizard@slrpnk.net · 69 pts · 129d
Fuck off
Gork@sopuli.xyz · 62 pts · 129d
Marvelous
Valmond@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 9 pts · 129d
When you really think about it, it absolutely is.
HexaBack@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 0 pts · 128d
Fuck off
samus12345@sh.itjust.works · 40 pts · 129d
Huh, it's been edited. In the original Barfyman said "kill yourself".
nightwatch_admin@lemmy.world · 13 pts · 129d
Fuck off is a better option.
GemAlarm@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 128d
samus12345@sh.itjust.works · 6 pts · 129d
Certainly less horrific.
Valmond@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 6 pts · 129d
Not as violent.
craftrabbit@lemmy.zip · 6 pts · 128d
Much less personal
thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 1 pts · 126d
Fuck off
thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 1 pts · 126d
Fuck off
Godric@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 128d
Fuck off
samus12345@sh.itjust.works · 3 pts · 128d
Marvelous
thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 5 pts · 128d
Fuck off
samus12345@sh.itjust.works · 4 pts · 128d
Marvelous
sad_detective_man@sopuli.xyz · 24 pts · 129d
I tried messaging a Finlander about a very successful mod for a videogame to thank them for making it. DM's closed, comments disabled, tracks buried 😅 they ain't having it. authentic experience
thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 3 pts · 128d
Fuck off
sad_detective_man@sopuli.xyz · 3 pts · 128d
😀 (wait I forgot not to smile at strangers. sorry)
ptu@sopuli.xyz · 2 pts · 128d
As a Finn I can say that you’re only supposed to give ”constructive feedback” which means pointing out mistakes. Any compliment will be taken as sarcasm.
sad_detective_man@sopuli.xyz · 1 pts · 128d
That's sad, but I get it. Thanks for clueing me in
ptu@sopuli.xyz · 2 pts · 128d
It was a bit exaggerated but true to an extent
jtrek@startrek.website · 22 pts · 129d
I remember when the internet was new, I'd make friends with random people I'd "meet". Like, I'd play Diablo with some rando on battle.net and then we'd stay in touch. Now it seems more ephemeral. Maybe it's just because I'm older.
Cracks_InTheWalls@sh.itjust.works · 6 pts · 128d
As a young teen, I arranged irl meets with people from band guestbooks and friends-of-friends-of-friends from MSN pretty frequently.
Dumb, looking back, but all turned out to be who they said they were and good times were had. Would be super concerned if my kid did the same and he's literally an adult now, so idk.
ArmoredThirteen@lemmy.zip · 5 pts · 129d
One of my best friends I met in a DRG lobby. We don't really even play DRG anymore, we do talk almost every day, sometimes they call and talk with me while I fall asleep (wildly different time zones). Don't even know their name lol
FlihpFlorp@piefed.zip · 5 pts · 129d
I can’t remember where j first heard it but internet friends are weird, like i know some of mine deepest darkest secrets, yet i don’t even know if really has legs
backalleycoyote@lemmy.today · 4 pts · 129d
My first internet experience was ‘96ish. My buddy’s dad was an HP engineer and had the stuff before a lot of people did. My buddy’s dad logged on, went into a chatroom, and the first thing I ever saw was a sex roleplay of Peter Pan and Wendy and some incest porn. Since then, nothing on the World Wide Web has surprised me. Been a few things I could have gone without seeing though 😕
captainlezbian@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 128d
I met my best friends over the internet in my late 20s during the pandemic. But it was a d&d lfg group and we're just the ones who actually played. I actually spend a month living with one of them when I moved out west last year
jtrek@startrek.website · 1 pts · 128d
I had a really good DND group during the pandemic. Probably the best game I ever ran. But it was online, and when the pandemic called down they all just drifted away. Very sad about it, honestly.
QuandaleDingle@lemmy.world · 12 pts · 129d
Hello World! ☺️
diabetic_porcupine@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 129d
Fuck off
QuandaleDingle@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 129d
☺️
thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 2 pts · 128d
Marvelous
heartpunk25@lemmy.world · 8 pts · 129d
mood
dansemacabreingalone@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 10 pts · 129d
Fuck off
heartpunk25@lemmy.world · 11 pts · 128d
Marvelous :D
roserose56@lemmy.zip · 8 pts · 129d
It's like every day life, where you are fine but someone else is not.
BilSabab@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 129d
reminded me of our data analysis teacher that kept banning all students that tried befriending him on Facebook.
tetris11@feddit.uk · 8 pts · 128d
good man, good man
thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 4 pts · 128d
Fuck off
BilSabab@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 128d
shooting stone cold facts!
thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 3 pts · 128d
Fuck off
Godric@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 128d
Marvelous
bridgeburner@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 128d
Wise man. Doesn't wanna get accused later on of having affairs with his students.
BilSabab@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 128d
it was way before the modern wave of cancel culture in late 2000s early 2010s - back when Facebook had separate quick chats and proper messages.
nandeEbisu@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 129d
a/s/l?
orbitz@lemmy.ca · 4 pts · 129d
13/f/ca (just answering the meme to the best of my knowledge, never know when a similar one comes up)
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 129d
f/16/ab
dansemacabreingalone@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 7 pts · 129d
Youre f years old and your gender is 16?
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world · 8 pts · 129d
::: spoiler not quite. 👉👈wanna see my sphincter?
:::
dansemacabreingalone@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 3 pts · 128d
I walked right into that one.
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 128d
it's the only way to answer that one. maybe f35, but it's hard to find those
Valmond@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 5 pts · 129d
F for fuckable, and we have even more genders now.
ClownStatue@piefed.social · 1 pts · 129d
My first thought, too.
RAFAELRAMIREZ@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 128d
The internet in a nutshell: unlimited connection, immediate chaos 😭
kinther@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 129d
I read something decades ago that still rings true to this day.
Internet + Anonymity = Fuckwad
dansemacabreingalone@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 3 pts · 129d
Youve clearly never been outside. Or to facebook.
thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 1 pts · 128d
Fuck off
thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 1 pts · 128d
Fuck off
kinther@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 128d
Case in point