They've sexualized the word "daddy" so much that when I have kids, they'll have to call me sensei.

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slazer2au@lemmy.world · 53 pts · 26d

That's not much better depending on what you read.

Bahnd@lemmy.world · 47 pts · 26d (2 replies)

"Yes Chef" also works

Notyou@sopuli.xyz · 11 pts · 26d

Does it.....

"Kiss up and down my arm."

'Yes Chef"

Kisses

Okay you're right.

renrenPDX@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 1 pts · 25d

Oui Chef

Yawweee877h444@lemmy.world · 24 pts · 26d (1 reply)

Master and commander, can I have a cookie?

After you finish your vegetables, subordinate.

wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz · 2 pts · 25d

"Captain."

"Ensign."

Abyssian@lemmy.world · 23 pts · 25d (9 replies)

Creeps me the fuck out when women do it sexually. Am I supposed to be turned on thinking she wants to fuck her dad, or turned on imagining I'm fucking one of my children?

Either way, naaaaah. Fuck no.

oceanwaveswoosh@lemmy.world · 9 pts · 25d (6 replies)
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EdTheMessenger@lemmy.world · 0 pts · 25d (5 replies)

Actually, your mind DID go to pedophilia immediately, because the comment you replied to didn't mention any ages. But you saw the word "children" and immediately thought of pedophilia.

Children can be any age... I am a 30+ child of my parents

oceanwaveswoosh@lemmy.world · 0 pts · 25d (4 replies)
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EdTheMessenger@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 25d (3 replies)

But that's a completely different topic. I didn't argue that the original comment didn't insinuate incest. We were talking about pedophilia, because you pulled it out of nothing, because the original comment didn't imply that in any way.

oceanwaveswoosh@lemmy.world · 0 pts · 25d (2 replies)
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EdTheMessenger@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 25d (1 reply)

I don't need a thing from you. I’m just calling out your dishonest bullshit.

​First, you smugly projected pedophilia onto the original commenter when you were the only person fucked up enough to bring the word into this thread. When I called you out on that projection, you immediately moved the goalposts to 'incest spectrums' to distract from your mistake. And now you're pulling this passive-aggressive 'wHaT dO yOu NeEd FrOm Me' act to pretend I'm the weird one for calling out your bullshit.

​Instead of just admitting you misread the post and apologizing for throwing around absurd accusations, you double down with logical fallacies and play victim. I don't need anything from you- just pointing out that projecting creepy shit onto strangers and playing dumb when called out doesn't make you look smart

oceanwaveswoosh@lemmy.world · 0 pts · 25d
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craftrabbit@lemmy.zip · 5 pts · 24d

It's weird as someone who didn't grow up speaking English, because I only ever hear the word in a sexual context (except occasionally and then it's very weird)

SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 3 pts · 25d

Lmao it's definitely a power dynamic and for some playing with shame

amio@lemmy.world · 16 pts · 26d (2 replies)

Normalize "Father/Mother" in a Dickensian era London accent.

MycelialMass@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 25d

Low key trying to make my infant start calling me father

HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 25d

I'm not calling my wife both father and mother. She's got enough in her plate

M137@lemmy.today · 15 pts · 25d (3 replies)

I've put the brakes on one night stands a couple of times when daddy or the equivalent in my language (pappa in Swedish) was said.
I can't even stand it in porn, it's just fucked up IMO. I can be close to climax and if it's said I'll be as soft as an almost rotten level overripe banana in seconds.

guy@piefed.social · 9 pts · 25d (1 reply)

Holy I would be a bit uncomfortable with being called daddy but pappa would throw me of completely.

Sylvartas@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 7 pts · 25d

Geef me een klap pappa

Flamekebab@piefed.social · 4 pts · 25d

My wife and I theorise that almost all Swedes speak English because it's so easy to make someone cringe in the bedroom when speaking Swedish.

nullspace@lemmy.world · 9 pts · 25d (1 reply)

Notice me, sensei.

wyldrstallyns@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 1 pts · 25d
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Diplomjodler3@lemmy.world · 9 pts · 26d

Ah yes, teach me harder, sensei!

SapphironZA@sh.itjust.works · 8 pts · 25d

Yes Step-Sensei

GeneralEmergency@lemmy.world · 8 pts · 26d (5 replies)

How to tell people you're porn addicted without telling people you're porn addicted.

agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works · 9 pts · 25d (3 replies)

This is a thing in real life. I'd say about half the women I've slept with have called me daddy in bed entirely of their own accord.

SethTaylor@lemmy.world · 8 pts · 25d

You sleep with women? Dude that's so gay

DarrinBrunner@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 25d (1 reply)

So, one?

agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works · 2 pts · 25d

Jokes aside, like 10-15 out of 30ish. It's surprisingly common.

AlteredEgo@lemmy.ml · 2 pts · 25d

Porn addicted? What is porn addicted?

I hate "daddy" too but that is hardly a sign of being porn addicted. Might also just be something other guys liked, so if you don't like it, just communicate.

LodeMike@lemmy.today · 7 pts · 25d (1 reply)

This sentence is old enough to be in middle school.

DarrinBrunner@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 25d

Nah. Most kids have switched to "Dad" by then.

Fleur_@aussie.zone · 7 pts · 26d

Me and this guy watch polar opposite porn lmao

Object@sh.itjust.works · 7 pts · 26d

Thank God Blue Archive didn't mess up the word sensei

caesaravgvstvs@feddit.org · 7 pts · 25d

Watch out, it's pretty close to sempai, and that one is also very sexualized!

Zannsolo@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 25d (8 replies)

Honestly your kids calling you daddy and your wife calling you daddy as a joke hits different. I love when my kids call me daddy.

titanicx@lemmy.zip · 8 pts · 25d (7 replies)

And I love when your wife calls me Daddy.

SethTaylor@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 25d (2 replies)

Wait a minute... if this guy's wife calls you daddy... and she calls me daddy... then... does that make us a gay couple? And does that make him our son-in-law?

titanicx@lemmy.zip · 3 pts · 25d

That's not how gay couples work. We're a thropple. And yes he is our son-in-law.

GreenKnight23@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 25d

only on Chewsday's.

Zannsolo@lemmy.world · -7 pts · 25d (3 replies)

Odds are she wouldn't get off with you sorry micro buddy

Abyssian@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 25d (2 replies)

Weird, she tells everyone else she fakes it with you.

J_N_F@lemmy.world · 7 pts · 25d (1 reply)

Please be careful - this dude's skin is obviously so thin that your words might cut him.

Abyssian@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 25d

I mean, he really should know that Beth's a giant slut.

Man, imagine his face if that's the right name.

MeowerMisfit817@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 25d (1 reply)

Good Morning, Progenitor

UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 24d

Hello, mudda

Hello, fadda

Here I am at

Camp Grenada

Allero@lemmy.today · 5 pts · 25d (2 replies)

You meant...senpai? ~

GreenKnight23@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 25d

uwu!

notice me senpai! notice me!

baltakatei@sopuli.xyz · 2 pts · 25d

Do they serve sem-pie here?

glimse@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 25d

They just took someone else's joke and replaced bro with sensei to make it a "brand new sentence"

Ah, the way of memes. You made this? I made this.

zedgeist@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 25d

Notice me, daddy-san!

grue@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 26d (1 reply)

"Translated from Portuguese?!"

protogen420@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 26d

brazillian reference

SaveTheTuaHawk@lemmy.ca · 3 pts · 26d

Canconda@lemmy.ca · 3 pts · 25d (6 replies)

So modern of you... allowing your children to address you directly. /s

m0darn@lemmy.ca · 8 pts · 25d (5 replies)

I was so uncomfortable watching that smarter every day video where his son only calls him "sir". Maybe it's a regional thing but it seemed super authoritarian and gross to me.

Leviathan@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 25d (3 replies)

Destin's son calls him "sir"? That's super fucked.

1D10@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 25d (1 reply)

He is super christian.

Leviathan@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 24d

Yeah. That's true.

m0darn@lemmy.ca · 1 pts · 24d

Looking at his recent videos I think it's the one with the triple barrelled pistol

Canconda@lemmy.ca · 1 pts · 25d

Yea I think it was Will Ferrell making fun of boomer fathers that did that I'm parroting here. But also I vaguely recall something like that watching old disney live actions. I wanna say scenes fromn Heidi, but that could have also been because she was an unconforming girl.

ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 25d

Sexualize all words!

P00ptart@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 26d (1 reply)

General, there's another settlement that needs help.

HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 25d

Need to construct more pylons

oce@jlai.lu · 2 pts · 26d

For me it will be shihan.

Tollana1234567@lemmy.today · 2 pts · 25d

porn pratically sexualized it, usually its "incest", or step porn. the usage of daddy is more pervasive with gay porn.

CaliforniaSober@lemmy.ca · 2 pts · 25d

No eye contact!

someguy3@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 25d (1 reply)

Who's your sensei?

GreenKnight23@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 25d

and what does he do?

minorkeys@sh.itjust.works · 0 pts · 26d (5 replies)

Who is 'they'? Pretty sure it's been predominantly a single, very identifiable group.

topherclay@lemmy.world · 9 pts · 25d (2 replies)

Super curious which very identifiable group you are talking about since it is not obvious to me.

minorkeys@sh.itjust.works · -11 pts · 25d (1 reply)

I believe in you, you can come to notice.

topherclay@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 25d

boooo coward

Wren@lemmy.today · 5 pts · 26d (1 reply)

Hot dads?

minorkeys@sh.itjust.works · -5 pts · 26d

Yeah, sure.