Anyone else kind of disgusted at the waste created by going out to eat?

I could have titled this as just waste created by living daily, but wanted to focus it down a little more. I feel kind of like im the crazy one that sees this insane waste when eating at restaurants, wrappers, cups, drink carriers going right in the trash, billions per day. Its insanity if you think about it.

I've at least been never using cup lids or straws and never taking drink carriers when theyre offered (what a massive waste of cardboard!). Then most of the waste is at least paper from the bag and wrapper. Still not great. And yes, I know the solution would be "cook at home!" But that also wastes a lot of freshwater from dish washing, and sometimes it's just nice to eat somewhere else.

I wonder if this is just something you notice as you get older. Then again older peiple probably waste the most, but I'm just guessing.

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partial_accumen@lemmy.world · 81 pts · 1y (5 replies)

But that also wastes a lot of freshwater from dish washing

I'm going to pick on this one point. A high end dishwasher appliance only use 2.4 gallons (9L) of fresh water, while even average dishwashers use about 5 to 6 gallons. To put that in perspective an 8 minute shower likely uses 17 gallons.

So dishwashing is a tiny tiny waste, if you can even call it a waste.

neidu3@sh.itjust.works · 34 pts · 1y

Another point of (minor) contention for me is the fact that fresh water isn't a limited resource in many parts of the world. Sure, some places it is, but a default of needing to save on water seems like a very limited frame of mind in the same way one shouldn't assume everywhere needs to focus on retaining building heat by recycling waste heat.

SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world · 21 pts · 1y

Compared to throwing away disposable plates and cutlery, it's a no-brainer.

AugustWest@lemm.ee · 12 pts · 1y

I agree dishwashers are efficient. It also sounds like you are talking about a home model. A commercial model in a kitchen is about 2 to 4 times more efficient. We are talking like maybe a gallon per 100 dishes kind of thing.

JayleneSlide@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 1y

Your point is spot-on. Fully agreed: modern dishwashers are way more energy- and water-efficient than manually washing dishes. Like at least an order of magnitude.

I personally struggle with this one for different reasons. Energy and water consumption are a very tight concern since I live on a sailboat. I can't just crank the tap to get more water. Marine health is also a concern since, ya know, it's all around me, and I eat some of these critters around my boat. Surfactants in detergent are deeply problematic in the environment and are not removed by most wastewater treatment. Moreover, surfactants impede wastewater treatment because of the emulsification interfere with aerobic treatment (Poland seems to be actively working on the problem). FWIW, manual dish detergent also has surfactants, especially SDS/SLS, so manual washing is not a panacea.

I don't think there is a "right" answer to be had. But it sticks in my craw both ways.

bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works · 3 pts · 1y

Good to know!! I had heard this once

Kennystillalive@feddit.org · 65 pts · 1y (4 replies)

You had me until "wastes a lot of freshwater from dishwashing" now you are just picking things to get mad about.

Yes I agree, eating out, specially fastfood is super wastefull for no reason at all.

Generally there should be more products offered as unpacked versions: where you can bring your own conatiner and fill out the things you need at the store and pay in kilos / litres and not in pieces. Unfortunately we are not there yet.

LaLuzDelSol@lemmy.world · 7 pts · 1y (1 reply)

I'm not so sure eating out a restaurant that doesn't use disposable utensils/dishes is really wasteful at all. The only difference i can think of is if you drove a long distance to get there. But it might actually be more efficient from an energy consumption perspective. You might have to heat up your oven just for a meal for a few people but they are going be cooking up a lot of stuff at once. I'd say the much bigger factors are a) are you wasting good and b) what kind of food are you eating.

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Rentlar@lemmy.ca · 1 pts · 1y (1 reply)

In Canada we have this thing called "bulk barn" (a brand of bulk food stores) that you pay by weight, as much or as little as you want, but you put each item you get into its own plastic bag.

jerkface@lemmy.ca · 5 pts · 1y

You can bring your own containers. They will tare them (ie weigh them and mark them with their mass) and then you can fill them as much or little as you like. On Sundays, you get an extra discount for bringing your own containers.

PonyOfWar@pawb.social · 39 pts · 1y (2 replies)

Are you referring mainly to fast food places or is it like that even at regular restaurants where you live? If I go to my local pizzeria or really any restaurant that isn't a fast food chain, there won't be any wrappers, single use cups or anything like that. Food will be served on plates with metal cutlery, drinks in drinking glasses etc. About the only single-use thing would be napkins I guess.

subignition@fedia.io · 18 pts · 1y (1 reply)

wrappers, cups, drink carriers

Very high chance they are referring mainly to fast food.

SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world · 16 pts · 1y

It seems like they're not even aware of the existence of restaurants that aren't fast food.

cattywampas@lemm.ee · 34 pts · 1y

And yes, I know the solution would be "cook at home!" But that also wastes a lot of freshwater from dish washing

I don't think this is a good point. Just by living you're going to be using resources of some kind, it's simply unavoidable. I would worry less about trying to consume zero resources and more about particularly harmful things, like single-use plastics. Especially since fresh water is not an issue in some places, like where I am.

Honestly, if you're going to a table service restaurant, it might be even better than eating at home. You're not going to get much plastic waste from single use items like you would with fast food, and because of the scale of the operation I could believe that restaurants are creating less waste per meal than individuals cooking at home. Think of a case of chicken breast versus individually packaged ones and the amount of plastic each uses, for example.

some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org · 30 pts · 1y (1 reply)

Sounds like you're describing fast food rather than restaurants. Going out to eat, for me, is going to a restaurant. I don't consider that super wasteful. Restaurants use washable plates and silverware. The travel with the vehicle is wasteful. But it's not especially wasteful.

Yes. Fast food is super wasteful. Especially if you're in a region that still uses styrofoam. But it's probably less wasteful than it was when any of us were children.

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zlatiah@lemmy.world · 21 pts · 1y (1 reply)

...are we describing the same restaurants? Unironically all the restaurants I go to generate less waste than me cooking at home lol...

As in, every time I go to a restaurant they would always bring in washable dishes/utensils, and I assume they would probably have to fill the dishwashers to the brim (in contrast to me living alone & only filling up half each time). The one time I ordered a takeout, the restaurant put all the food in insanely high-quality takeout boxes that were freezer and microwave friendly, I used them for meal prep for a full year...

Granted these are fine dining and all cost a fortune. I guess fast food/takeouts do describe that a bit better

TheWilliamist@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 1y

It should be noted that “microwave safe” containers are not necessarily food safe. It literally means they will not melt or warp the microwave.

TRock@feddit.dk · 19 pts · 1y (8 replies)

Stop eating at fast food places

bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works · -7 pts · 1y (7 replies)

This is why normal people don't believe in or want to listen to anything about climate change. Lets blame the corpos for forcing us to use disposable junk, and not the people who want a quick meal once a week.

Hereforpron2@lemmynsfw.com · 6 pts · 1y

Fast food is defined by not having table service and being more intended for carryout than dine in eating. So either you're asking for a system that relies on fast food restaurants to provide reusable equipment and that demands diners come back just to return it, or you're gonna have to find another business model to support. It's not about blame, that's just how the entire business model works, and if a person wants not to support it, they have to make individual decisions not to do so...

blackbrook@mander.xyz · 4 pts · 1y (2 replies)

By all means. But chain restaraunts are owned by the corpos. If you want to take power from the corpos you need to stop giving them your money.

bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works · 0 pts · 1y (1 reply)

I mean, the flour and eggs you buy to cook at home also come from corpos. I have a garden but there's no way it could sustain someone without also using grocery.

blackbrook@mander.xyz · 1 pts · 1y

Well King Arthur, the flour company, is employee owned.

We're stuck between a rock and a hard place with a bad system but there are choices we can make about how fully it controls us.

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ahornsirup@feddit.org · 2 pts · 1y

That's how fast food works though. Using non-disposable plates, cups, etc. for takeout would be impractical unless it's strictly "bring your own". The industry requires waste.

FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 1y

100%

AugustWest@lemm.ee · 18 pts · 1y

Out to eat..... Bag and wrapper? Straws and cups? That's not going out to eat.

HubertManne@piefed.social · 16 pts · 1y

I came to say actually its a bit more efficient but it sounds like you mean fast food. I mean when I hear out to eat I think waitress, silver and dinnerware type thing. I mean even casual dining like tgif or such and heck steak and shake you can sit down and get that. Also if you have ever seen technology connections, dishwashers are insanely efficient water wise reusing it over and over till it gets dirty.

remon@ani.social · 15 pts · 1y (1 reply)

I could understand homecooking and when ordering food, as that stuff comes in disposable packaging.

But when going out to eat? Drinks come in a glass or cup, food comes on a plate, side dishes in bowls. I'm sure the kitchen produces waste, but you don't really get to see it.

sunzu2@thebrainbin.org · 4 pts · 1y
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philpo@feddit.org · 14 pts · 1y (2 replies)

Funny enough,you produce far more waste and environmental impact if you cook alone or for a small household.

From an environmental perspective a communal cafeteria with set times is actually king.

BussyCat@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 1y (1 reply)

Do you have a source on that, I know a saw a source a while ago showing that meal delivery service generate less waste due to less food waste than grocery stores have. But in my experience reastaurants have a ton of food waste

turmacar@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 1y

I feel like using that statistic is misleading in terms of efficiency just from the factor of "gallons of gas per pound of food transported".

Sure there's spoilage from product going bad, but marginal efficiency gains there are so far down the list of things to worry about that they're not really worth going into. The reason people don't have food isn't because enough isn't produced, it's because they're not allowed to have it because they don't have enough money. Less food spoiling doesn't fix that problem.

Zenith@lemm.ee · 13 pts · 1y

Go to a real restaurant??

cley_faye@lemmy.world · 11 pts · 1y

You're talking about fast food. And even them are slowly (very slowly) moving toward reusable/washable stuff.

Some fast food, if eating there (not to-go) have limited waste, as far as the customer side is concerned. Actual restaurants, aside from straws everything's reusable. And they're probably a bit more efficient than cooking at home, too.

It might just be a case of stopping supporting places that are not moving in line with the time.

supersquirrel@sopuli.xyz · 10 pts · 1y (2 replies)

I agree, I think part of the subconcious luxury is having lots of stuff used and wasted on you, on the otherhand though cooking food at a central canteen is always going to be more efficient and less wasteful than everyone individually cooking at home so shrugs when I go out I just only support local restaurants and try to avoid the ones that are blatantly wasteful.

sbv@sh.itjust.works · 4 pts · 1y (1 reply)

I feel like disposable cups, flimsy disposable plates, and crappy plastic utensils are the opposite of luxury. They remind you that you're eating food made on an assembly line at the lowest possible cost. But maybe that's just my point of view.

supersquirrel@sopuli.xyz · 1 pts · 1y

Definitely, but we are talking about the US here, we are conditioned from a young age to become aroused by the imagery of disposable cheap things being used once and then thrown away.

To the US psyche, tacky disposable things are an expression of our superiority and power since we can choose in all of our material wealth to simply toss away the things around us and get new ones as much as we like, for any reason.

A fancy porcelain plate on the otherhand to the US psyche is a symbol of weakness, of an inability to break with the past, of a fragility and fear that there is something beautiful that could be broken that cannot be easily replaced and that must be treated with respect. This is seen as how savages think and act by USians, not consciously necessarily but our worldview was shaped this way for a reason.

Move Fast And Break Things

Do you ever think about how it would be the most natural thing in the world for US "conservatives" to treat the primary concern for conservation as the health of the natural landscapes around us? You have to ask yourself why under the extremophile environment of US society that this isn't even considered an intellectual incongruity most of the time?

jjjalljs@ttrpg.network · 9 pts · 1y

Single use plastic should he illegal for most things. Yes, it might be inconvenient to have to carry your own thermos or whatever, but filling the ocean with plastic is worse than inconvenient

meekah@lemmy.world · 8 pts · 1y (3 replies)

I mean I get where you're coming from, but if you consider the water to wash dishes wasted, I'm afraid there isn't really any food that is not wasteful, except maybe berries straight from the bush...

ikidd@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 1y (2 replies)

I just drop down on a deer from a tree, eat its liver, and lick the blood off my knife.

kkj@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 4 pts · 1y (1 reply)

You better eat the whole deer. If you leave the hooves behind, that's too wasteful.

ikidd@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 1y

Damn rights, need those for glue. You leave the hooves alone, they're mine.

DarkFuture@lemmy.world · 7 pts · 1y (1 reply)

I'm disgusted by it.

But I've also reached the point where I've accepted that humanity will absolutely destroy this planet and there's not much that we can do about it.

I still try to minimize my waste, but I do so simply to make myself feel better in the short term, not because I think it's actually going to make a difference in the end.

bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works · 0 pts · 1y

Yeah on one hand it's like, screw it, waste all i want and fuck the rest. But then I'd be a boomer

Ephera@lemmy.ml · 6 pts · 1y

I'm guessing, this is what a drink carrier looks like, in case anyone else is wondering:

bluGill@fedia.io · 5 pts · 1y

Freshwater is not wasted. Hot water is wasted unless your water heating comes from renewable energy (rare), so wash as cold as possible, but freshwater is not wasted. It is trivial (though it does cost money!) to treat waste water from your cleaning (including your toilets) and turn it back into drinkable fresh water. I know cities generally dump their treated sewage back into the river, but it is drinkable water and the next city downstream will take it in.

makyo@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 1y (1 reply)

The amount of packaging we use once and then just throw away is hideous.

In Germany they put a bounty on glass bottles to encourage people to collect and return for reusing and I wish we would standardize more/all packaging like this and reuse everything over and over.

bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works · -3 pts · 1y

I much prefer glass. However it takes a decent amount more fuel to transport glass since it's so heavy.

Libb@jlai.lu · 4 pts · 1y (4 replies)

Then again older peiple probably waste the most, but I’m just guessing.

You may be guessing wrong, then. That is coming from a 50+.

when eating at restaurants, wrappers, cups, drink carriers

Stop eating at fast-food, maybe?

My spouse and I have not been offered a straw, or a cup with a lid, packages or wrappers of any sort since we've quit going to fast-food (or joint selling any kind of industrially processed turd food), that was some 20 or 30 years ago.

We get served in a real plate, use real silverware (sorry, I don't know the English word to say 'fork, knife and spoon'), drink (no soda) in a real glass and have our coffee served in a real cup. LIke we woudl at home save the food is not cooked by us but is also fresh and not prepackaged (it helps to locate those restaurants that are real restaurants, not the many that are just microwaving prepackaged stuff)

SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 1y (1 reply)

"Silverware" is not the wrong word. "Cutlery" would also work, and lacks any posh implications. "Utensils" is another good one.

Libb@jlai.lu · 3 pts · 1y

Thx :)

bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works · -2 pts · 1y (1 reply)

Sorry, when im referring to those of an older age im thinking mcmansion, 3 campers and 4 trucks (most people in the Midwest cities) so thats where I was guessing more waste is created.

Yes of course the answer is stop eating fast food. Live in a cave, don't reproduce, that is how we create the least waste. Im not suggesting that. Im saying it's gross that these companies willingly waste so much when we don't really need to.

Libb@jlai.lu · 1 pts · 1y

Yes of course the answer is stop eating fast food. Live in a cave, don’t reproduce, that is how we create the least waste. Im not suggesting that. Im saying it’s gross that these companies willingly waste so much when we don’t really need to.

  • Not going to fast food does not mean to stop eating, hopefully for your health.
  • Nor does it mean to stop reproducing... I don't now about you, but I seldom fuck in public places.
  • And it does not mean living in a cave either unless one considers going to a fast-food the apex of a great night out? Which I don't... but I also don't consider a fast-food a restaurant at all.

that is how we create the least waste.

Wrong. We produce less waste by closely studying our habits and usages and figuring out ways to change them to produce less waste, not by expecting a corporation to do it for us because they will only change (but they will) the second their financial results fall because they insist on selling (shit food and) wrapping their consumers refuse to buy. Until then...

Meanwhile, I'll go back into my cave that's surrounded by wonderful places one can go eat in the streets nearby, places who serve some real food without any wrapping. Odd, I know but we also have that stupid giant metal tower around here, and those fancy museums, the entire world likes to visit. And we eat baguettes.

Have a nice day.

Edit: typos

corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca · 4 pts · 1y

I’ve at least been never using cup lids or straws and never taking drink carriers when [they're] offered (what a massive waste of cardboard!).

  1. lids and straws are absolutely insignificant against the whole.
  2. cardboard drink carriers use a rougher kind of cardboard without dyes or wax or plastic, and it's on the end of the spectrum with the least impact to the environment.

...the bag and wrapper.

You may have picked a class of restaurant that produces the most hard-to-biodegrade waste, and I'm not sure it's proper to paint an entire industry based on its worst members. It's like the sub-prime mortgage crisis but for restaurant and waste.

“cook at home!”

I'm not sure you're comparing two values with the same magnitude.

I wonder if this is just something you notice as you get older.

Your writing suggests a member of a cohort that isn't even close to getting 'older'. As an American Millennial, in a country with a rapidly-declining life expectancy, growing old may not be a valid concern.

peiple

A hat on a hat.

Plebcouncilman@sh.itjust.works · 4 pts · 1y

Like you said, most of it is paper so I think it’s fine. I am more concerned with snacks and shit which are wrapped in plastic and aluminum foil.

JackbyDev@programming.dev · 3 pts · 1y

I just wanted to mention that using some water to wash dishes isn't wasteful at all. Also a dish washer uses much less water than you'd think.

Today@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 1y (3 replies)

You should see what happens at the hospital. Every item is single use in plastic packaging.

FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world · 8 pts · 1y (1 reply)

Yes, but that is for good reason: sanitation.

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bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works · 2 pts · 1y

Oof, thats very true. But how else do you keep everything clean i guess. Losing game

psion1369@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 1y

If you think what you have to throw out as the consumer is wasteful, take a look in the kitchens of these places and tell me that it's any better. Most foods that have to be prepped in advance must be separated by single-use parchment/wax paper, then wrapped in plastic. When ready to use, use a glove for a few uses to take the prepped food out of the wrap, remove the paper separating it all, and chuck it out. It could have been prepped a week ago, or only two hours ago for fresh use, you still throw out all this paper and plastic wrapping. And then the cleaning, there is an inexcusable amount of paper towel used for various purposes, from drying your hands to wiping a counter/table, etc. And it's all thrown out. Some restaurants will use towels and kitchen rags, but then you have so many to wash and clean, it's usually done by a third-party service that has to drive to pick it all up, drive to a central laundry stop, do the laundry, and then drive it all back to get done again. And if you are in a place that has a washing machine in-house, it's a drop in the bucket in solving real waste issues.

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Feyd@programming.dev · 2 pts · 1y

Without reading anything but the title - yes. I actively avoid going to restaurants that use single use plates and the like. I also take containers with me and encourage others to do so rather than using single use takeout containers for leftovers. I also am not keen on doing takeout.

Rentlar@lemmy.ca · 2 pts · 1y

If you want to talk about personal waste, the problem is two-end: reducing consumption (new stuff) and reducing disposal. Some plastic wrapping, some packaging and single use items are required in some applications (e.g. for sanitary reasons), but we can find alternatives (e.g. bamboo biodegradable cutlery) and look to use longer lasting items over single use. The second is the lack of segragation of waste streams and appropriate facilities to reclaim material from waste. Even if something is biodegradable, if it ends in a landfill it can release methane or if burned it releases CO2. Many landfills have most of their emissions coming from organic and yard waste, and diverting that to compost, mulch and natural gas digester projects.

There are a lot of problems but there are also a lot of solutions. You will have to set aside a level of waste you are willing to accept, and work towards places you can improve or propose items or support efforts that can help. Zero waste for everywhere and everything is an impossible goal that strictly pursuing that will achieve nothing but make you depressed.

For restaurants specifically, when you eat out you can go to places with washable plates and cutlery instead of paper/plastic ones, or for the cheaper end, ones that use bamboo cutlery instead of plastic.

9point6@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 1y (1 reply)

It's unfortunately a cost thing.

If you want to avoid the single use waste, you have to patronise more expensive restaurants

In my experience it's fast food or fast food adjacent places that are the worst for disposable items. The more expensive the meal, the only things going in the bin are any leftovers.

It really shouldn't be that way, but it is.

Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 1y

Anyone who can afford a Michelin Star dinner, isn't going to want to take home the napkins or silverware.

Those of us who can afford Taco Bell, stock up on sporks.

bieren@lemmy.zip · 2 pts · 1y

My issue with eating out is more the cost than the waste. Both are ridiculous though.

sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml · 1 pts · 1y

Begging screaming and crying for public canteens in our future. The individualization of cooking and therefore cleaning is a huge part of our wastefulness imo

ieatpwns@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 1y

So is breathing wasteful since you’re turning o2 into co2 exacerbating the green house issue?

ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 1y

Yep, I hate it too. At least the places I eat at (by myself, not with my wife) barely give you a napkin, you just get the meal and accompanying grease, but still.

chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 1 pts · 1y

To me the part that seems the most wasteful is wasting the time of badly paid workers when you could just prepare food for yourself instead, and to a lesser extent the waste of your money going to a corporation, and the waste of real estate. I don't think things like water use and extra plastic/cardboard trash associated with food is all that impactful or worth worrying about. That said I personally avoid going out to eat except in the rare cases when it is an unavoidable social requirement, so a few times a year at most.

jerkface@lemmy.ca · 0 pts · 1y

If you mean the waste of the lives of vulnerable individuals, yes, this bothers me tremendously to the point where it's sometimes difficult to function. I have trouble getting worked up about plastic cups next to actual atrocity against intelligent creatures.

CaptainThor@lemmy.world · 0 pts · 1y

no

BlackLaZoR@fedia.io · -1 pts · 1y

kind of disgusted at the waste created by going out to eat?

I'm kinda annoyed they want me to segregate it into three different trashcans

dil@lemmy.zip · -2 pts · 1y

Rich ppl prob create that much waste casually just eating at home idrc about what working class ppl do