What are you doing for digital estate planning?

Password manager with a recovery phrase tied to an elaborate world wide scavenger hunt

#1 thing is to make sure all accounts have beneficiaries. Accounts should have a primary beneficiary (your spouse), and if there is the ability to make a secondary beneficiary, see if they will divide it among any children you have . This is of paramount importance.

I know someone who passed away suddenly, and did not have a beneficiary on his "play money" stock account. His widow had to go through a lot of hoops to get access to it.

From there, I am a big believer in paper. I want those statements coming to the house. I file them all, and my wife knows where I put them. If I were to go poof , I'm sure she (with a lot of help from her siblings) would make sure nothing goes unpaid.

The Crypto is a different story, of course. When you can Be Your Own Bank, there are no beneficiaries or contingencies: it's all keys. I have a bit of crypto in a HW wallet. But, years ago I moved some BTC to Coinbase, and it's still there after all these years. I am thinking of moving the rest, just to make it easier for people to sell if I do go poof. Yeah , Not Your Keys, Not Your Coins. But it would be tragic if my crypto got lost because I bit it and nobody knew how to operate my wallet.

I have a deadman switch that will activate a worm that will simultaneously devour the entire internet and trigger my house to burn down.

it's all triggered off my pacemaker. once it pops, the fun just stops.

Yeah this one bothers me. My spouse is clueless about technology and our online accounts. When I did estate planning with my lawyer, they said the paperwork would grant access to everything. My spouse's grown kids (previous marriage) are tech savvy, which helps.

I've thought about leaving instructions and passwords on a USB thumb drive, but that idea has a number of flaws.

My uncle passed unexpectedly a few years ago. He didn't have any family nearby so I went down with my dad to sort through his shit. This man had an entire spreadsheet with every single account username and password he had printed out. I cannot tell you how much time it saved me. He had a ton of accounts with monthly payments (mostly porn) that I was able to cancel immediately, and we were able to access all his banking stuff.

He also had a hard-drive full of meticulously organized porn, which was depressing to have to wipe to be honest because he had clearly put a lot of time and effort into it.

I dont recommend just a spreadsheet like that in your house tbh but ever since, I created a password manager with one primary password that my partner knows where to find if anything were to happen to me.

Passwords are in Keepass. My son knows the software because he uses it. The master password is written down as part of my estate planning. That will provide access to every account needed to my successors.

I have a second password store with all of my questionable content. Not going to pass that on to the family. Let it all die horribly.

Still need to move local sketchy content to an encrypted volume, without recording a password to access it. Probably this winter. I want to be ready to die by spring.

Everything encrypted except pirated media on external drives. All personal data encrypted so if i die people are locked out of personal files and will have to wipe the drives to make them usable. Finally if they don't use linux they might be out of luck with those external drives with media, too.

Nothing. I expect to be the last in my family and honestly don't care much what happens with my estate after I'm dead. I've been thinking about setting up a will for the benefit of my friends and their kids but that's about it. What little is not found by the tax office after my passing doesn't matter. None of my accounts no longer matter. My photos and videos no longer matter. My favourite songs and movies no longer matter. My opinions no longer matter. Maybe I should ask for someone to remove any identifiable trace of me online though I don't really know why anybody should be bothered. In less than a hundred years nobody will know I have ever existed. Maybe some reflection or speck of information I've shared at some point will anonymously benefit someone in the future but that's about it. Whatever remains of me online is just digital dust in the crevices of the information highway that nobody will care to examine anyway. And I'm perfectly fine with it.

Consider how much you want your family or kids looking at your browser history

I have a notebook stashed that has all my accounts and passwords. Told the hubs about it. Should be enough, I dont make accounts willy nilly, so what is important is logged so if I drop dead tomorrow my family can have access without too much stress. It really seems like the simplest way, for my simple accounts. I dont know my lemmy password though haha. I ever lose this device, it's just gonna be dead.

My father died the begining of this year, getting his passwords was a nightmare. Side note, the fucker was on 4chan. gross. But pen and paper are mostly reliable, barring disasters.

All my shit is locked down. Nobody else knows the passwords or codes for it. When I die, it goes with me.

My main passphrase that unlocks my PW manager is in the same envelope as my testament. My partner knows my excessively long phone passcode by heart.

I don't think leaving a password around for your bank account would be legal. It's handled by inheritance laws so my family will take my death certificate to the bank/lawyer and get the money. Same with every other contract like cell phone and internet.

Everything else stays locked. Why would I give anyone access to my phone, email or laptop? My homelab will work as long as it's plugged in and then it will just die. Who cares?

One kid get my steam account and the NAS with the proviso they give the family photos on said NAS to the siblings. The other kids get photos.

They don't need my email full of spam and love letters.

Bank account will hopefully be cleaned out by my future self having a hell of a bender to celebrate my life.

There are contingency plans for all my digital responsibilities (ie things other people rely upon that need someone to maintain them). For everything else, ie digital assets that only I use, I don't care what happens to them when I die, on account of being dead and unable to care about anything.

There's nothing in my email/computer/bank account that anyone else needs access to. When I go it all goes with me.

I left a technical recovery guide by scenario. I periodically test the instructions. Each of these are different because of MFA.

Me dead, all devices accessible

Me dead, phone missing

Me dead, computer missing

Me dead, phone and computer missing

Me dead, all devices missing

Left a password manager account break in instruction guide to accompany the scenarios.

Eh, I won't worry about that while my parents are still alive. More worried about me having to handle all their stuff.

This is more of a logistical problem than a technology problem, so anything you set up will stand or fall based on how much effort you put into communicating with your loved ones.

That said, Ente locker might be a good tool. Should be easy to use and a hundred entries are free.

just wipe it all.

no interest in accessing anyone's online accounts. that shit it is weird. nobody in my family has a 'tech estate' nor would anyone want to access their apple music they bought.

you don't need account access for any of the important stuff. you need to go to the bank to show proof of death anyway.

oh my god fuck this life