I'm sorry but "lol" is a totem of the fact that our generation was the first that grew up with the internet. Instant messengers were a cornerstone of our youth, and it's been embedded into our language. There is no changing this.
It would be like us asking you to stop using "it's giving" or similar.
It started out as being “it’s giving X vibes” to describe things being similar (as the person who replied before me said). As slang is wont to do, it got shortened to “it’s giving”.
I pilfered my name from Tolkiens Silmarillion. Mîm was A petty dwarf during the First Age.
Don't know for sure how to pronounce it, but since "Mîms" are used as a replacement for "memes" in The appropriate sub's on reddit, it probably Is something similar.
The brothers lionheart is peak <3 did you know that Astrid got the idea for that book after reading a headstone for two dead brothers in a cemetery in Sweden? I think that is so sweet and heartbreaking.
For a number of years, in my town's cemetery, there was a little headstone for a stillborn baby and on the headstone they had written "Vi ses i Nangijala" = see you in nangijala. The last words Karl speaks before he dies.
A Norwegian friend of mine found the headstone and dragged me over to it and we both started bawling our non-scandinavian classmates didn't understand what was happening while all the other Scandinavians were immediately like 😢
I love the story behind your username, friend! That is both clever and nerdy af xD
Also, love Germany! 🤗 have visited several times and it's a beautiful country and cool people. I think the only criticism my parents had on one of our visits back in the 2000s was that the Germans have more horrific wallpaper than the British. Personally, I disagree. The British are way worse xD
I'm just a bit old to be a millennial (The Oregon Trail generation, thank you very much) and I will often add a ", lol" to the end of a sentence just to hopefully help the lighthearted tone come through.
I was talking to someone about a serious and personal topic, and caught myself saying "lol" quickly, and apologised in advance explaining that it's a habit.
"Man, that sucks lol". They understood it already as a force of habit, yet I didn't realise how difficult it is to shake lol!
Edit: damn it..
Firmly Gen Y here and I use it all the damn time, but I blame that on computers not showing up until I was an awkward teen in high school and needed a neutral way to respond where people wouldn't think I was AFK. We didn't have ways to react to messages so lol and every varient (up to and including the roflcopter, lol) became our way to fill the silence. We were a generation that developed a way to communicate that you found annoying... just like every other generation, GenX gave us "Whatever" as the exclamation of frustrated, GenZ gave us stuff like "drip" for great fashion taste... GenY had a 9 key layout to type as we entered the workforce so we tried to keep it short.
The full stop feels way more serious to me, like an accusation. It feels like something that your manager might say before pip-ing you. The latter feels way less serious, like a friend about to remind you that you're meeting up later today so you don't forget. Periods mean serious. On the other side, lol means light hearted. "I don't think you're on top of things lol" is like something a friend would say after I lay out my elaborate plan that misses something totally obvious
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TheMinions@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 131 pts · 250d
Wish granted. Haha
Zephorah@discuss.online · 62 pts · 250d
Could make it worse with a hehe.
ThePantser@sh.itjust.works · 34 pts · 250d
hoho
Greddan@feddit.org · 25 pts · 250d
half_built_pyramids@lemmy.world · 13 pts · 250d
bur
Supervisor194@lemmy.world · 13 pts · 250d
huehuehue
fleem@piefed.zeromedia.vip · 8 pts · 250d
teehee
wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz · 2 pts · 249d
ははは
ken@discuss.tchncs.de · 2 pts · 249d
wwwww
wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz · 1 pts · 249d
555
TheMinions@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 13 pts · 250d
Shishishi
kieron115@startrek.website · 8 pts · 250d
wish granted, uwu.
binarytobis@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 250d
Heh heh. 👹
funkless_eck@sh.itjust.works · 24 pts · 250d
Due to your actions placing this company in a bad light, your employment is hereby terminated with immediate effect. Tee hee xoxo
pohart@programming.dev · 14 pts · 250d
Haha at the end definitely bothers me lol
mybuttnolie@sopuli.xyz · 7 pts · 250d
what really bothers me is jajaja
Kraiden@piefed.social · 3 pts · 250d
unknown@piefed.social · 7 pts · 250d
Lmao
Fmstrat@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 248d
Or "Hah!"
It's clear older edge-millinials were not consulted in the making of this meme.
pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 77 pts · 250d
It's a good tone indicator
MisterFrog@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 249d
Indeed, lol is not the same as haha
It's more of a sarcastic vibe. Which fits, because you are definitely not laughing out loud when you write lol
Uppercase LOL feels like a haha fuck them kind of schadenfreude laugh to me.
Perhaps LOL is a softer version of HAHAHAHAHAHAHA, which I use to the same effect.
JackbyDev@programming.dev · 2 pts · 249d
Haha, hehe, heh, hehheh are all very different.
sparkles@piefed.zip · 58 pts · 250d
KoboldCoterie@pawb.social · 39 pts · 250d
Use :3 just to make it awkward.
SpookyBogMonster@lemmy.ml · 12 pts · 250d
You can pry :3 from my cold, dead, hands
TheFresh16@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 250d
SpookyBogMonster@lemmy.ml · 2 pts · 249d
RAWR XD
Lucidlethargy@sh.itjust.works · 4 pts · 250d
What about :D
Quetzalcutlass@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 250d
:P sends its regards.
abbadon420@sh.itjust.works · 6 pts · 250d
Haha IKR XD
L0rdMathias@sh.itjust.works · 49 pts · 250d
I ain't using the skull emoji as a replacement for perfectly good ASCII
blinfabian@feddit.nl · 13 pts · 250d
bro 💀
floquant@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 9 pts · 250d
Some of you youngins have never typed a >.< and it shows
tehmics@lemmy.world · 7 pts · 250d
Ok boomer
Apocalypteroid@anarchist.nexus · 47 pts · 250d
I'm a Xennial, so I put lol at the end of my sentences, but hate it. lol
dubyakay@lemmy.ca · 17 pts · 250d
Least we are not forgotten for once kek
Matriks404@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 250d
I am a Zillenial and I do the same.
Someonelol@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 43 pts · 250d
Well crap my username announces my age.
mrnobody@reddthat.com · 25 pts · 250d
Well crap my username announces my age, lol.
There, fixed it for you, lol
BananaIsABerry@lemmy.zip · 40 pts · 250d
I literally can't stop myself lol
It's a problem lmao
Lucidlethargy@sh.itjust.works · 37 pts · 250d
How will people know my tone? It's stupid, but effective.
Lol.
semperverus@lemmy.world · 37 pts · 250d
I'm sorry but "lol" is a totem of the fact that our generation was the first that grew up with the internet. Instant messengers were a cornerstone of our youth, and it's been embedded into our language. There is no changing this.
It would be like us asking you to stop using "it's giving" or similar.
__Lost__@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 10 pts · 250d
What does "it's giving" mean? I don't think I've heard anyone say that.
zammy95@lemmy.world · 9 pts · 250d
"it's similar too" or "it reminds me" I think? That's how I'd describe it from my understanding
slappyfuck@lemmy.ca · 3 pts · 249d
That’s correct! It started out as “it’s giving X vibes” to state the similarity, then just naturally shortened to “it’s giving”.
slappyfuck@lemmy.ca · 4 pts · 249d
It started out as being “it’s giving X vibes” to describe things being similar (as the person who replied before me said). As slang is wont to do, it got shortened to “it’s giving”.
JackbyDev@programming.dev · 2 pts · 249d
It's giving lol
lesnout27@feddit.org · 1 pts · 248d
"fr fr"
Nariom@lemmy.world · 32 pts · 250d
lol, ok
OpenStars@piefed.social · 5 pts · 250d
Aren't you supposed to add "boomer" to that? (also, isn't everyone over 40 a boomer now, according to some? 😜)
FlordaMan@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 250d
Ok boomer
OpenStars@piefed.social · 3 pts · 250d
That's the good stuff! 😁👴
ebolapie@lemmy.world · 31 pts · 250d
lol. lmao, even.
psx_crab@lemmy.zip · 25 pts · 250d
Sure lol
tigeruppercut@lemmy.zip · 24 pts · 249d
I alternate between that and "haha". You can pry my lol off my cold dead lolerskate feet as I fly away in my roflcopter
bizarroland@lemmy.world · 24 pts · 250d
I hear you.
Hear me out, though, don't censor the way other people speak as long as that speech is inoffensive.
If it makes people happy to add lol, or any other thing into their speaking pattern, then that's perfectly fine.
If you have a judgment about it, keep it to yourself.
There are more important things to worry about.
Kraiden@piefed.social · 8 pts · 250d
This. Unless it's uwu. Unironic uwu users must be shunned for the good of us all
Speculater@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 250d
uwudn't!
yakko@feddit.uk · 4 pts · 250d
It's time to just support cringe as long as it's not fascist cringe.
It's time to be groovy with any type of 'other' that accepts others.
lolola@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 21 pts · 250d
how do you ask someone to change their whole identity like that
Nangijala@feddit.dk · 7 pts · 250d
Username, lol
lolola@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 4 pts · 249d
(glares intensely)
Mim@lemmy.zip · 2 pts · 248d
You also have a very nice username.
Nangijala@feddit.dk · 2 pts · 248d
Thank you! And you too! Even though I dunno how to pronounce î. You're Scandinavian too?
Mim@lemmy.zip · 2 pts · 248d
No, German. Love the Brothers Lionheart.
I pilfered my name from Tolkiens Silmarillion. Mîm was A petty dwarf during the First Age.
Don't know for sure how to pronounce it, but since "Mîms" are used as a replacement for "memes" in The appropriate sub's on reddit, it probably Is something similar.
Nangijala@feddit.dk · 2 pts · 247d
The brothers lionheart is peak <3 did you know that Astrid got the idea for that book after reading a headstone for two dead brothers in a cemetery in Sweden? I think that is so sweet and heartbreaking.
For a number of years, in my town's cemetery, there was a little headstone for a stillborn baby and on the headstone they had written "Vi ses i Nangijala" = see you in nangijala. The last words Karl speaks before he dies.
A Norwegian friend of mine found the headstone and dragged me over to it and we both started bawling our non-scandinavian classmates didn't understand what was happening while all the other Scandinavians were immediately like 😢
I love the story behind your username, friend! That is both clever and nerdy af xD
Also, love Germany! 🤗 have visited several times and it's a beautiful country and cool people. I think the only criticism my parents had on one of our visits back in the 2000s was that the Germans have more horrific wallpaper than the British. Personally, I disagree. The British are way worse xD
Zink@programming.dev · 20 pts · 250d
I'm just a bit old to be a millennial (The Oregon Trail generation, thank you very much) and I will often add a ", lol" to the end of a sentence just to hopefully help the lighthearted tone come through.
slappyfuck@lemmy.ca · 2 pts · 249d
Yeah I was gonna say! We Xennials absolutely add the lol too. But I guess “true” Gen Xers don’t?
rumschlumpel@feddit.org · 19 pts · 250d
How about this? Ü
Matriks404@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 250d
Üzgünüm...
Just starting to learn Turkish, lül.
rumschlumpel@feddit.org · 3 pts · 250d
Germans 🤝 Turks
Nangijala@feddit.dk · 1 pts · 250d
Makes me think about that Truth or Dare movie.
PunnyName@lemmy.world · 19 pts · 250d
It's the only way I can avoid both Poe's law and involuntary institutionalization, lol
deacon@lemmy.world · 19 pts · 250d
I could never bring myself to do that, actually.
So I just ended up replacing it with an equally annoying onomatopoeic expression to end almost every sentence, haha
spankinspinach@sh.itjust.works · 11 pts · 250d
I unapologetically balance my lols and hahas. Loha if you will lol
MacAttak8@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 250d
This is the way. Lol
IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 250d
lol
JadenSmith@sh.itjust.works · 17 pts · 250d
I was talking to someone about a serious and personal topic, and caught myself saying "lol" quickly, and apologised in advance explaining that it's a habit.
"Man, that sucks lol". They understood it already as a force of habit, yet I didn't realise how difficult it is to shake lol!
Edit: damn it..
CatZoomies@lemmy.world · 17 pts · 250d
unknown@piefed.social · 4 pts · 250d
ฅ^>⩊<^ ฅNangijala@feddit.dk · 14 pts · 250d
Cry about it, lol.
StarvingMartist@sh.itjust.works · 13 pts · 250d
Rofl lmao XD
Mcdolan@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 250d
Ya got to many "l"s
jacecomix@sh.itjust.works · 12 pts · 250d
I literally can't help it lol
It's just what I do haha
LillyPip@lemmy.ca · 1 pts · 250d
Ho ho ha ha hee hee ha ha
Ho ho ha ha hee hee ha ha
Ho ho ha ha hee hee ha ha
Ooooooihhhhhhhh
(If you know this reference and can hear it, you’re really weird)
SpicyTaint@lemmy.world · 11 pts · 250d
MehBlah@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 250d
ROFLMAO!
BackgrndNoize@lemmy.world · 11 pts · 250d
Okay rofl
JargonWagon@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 250d
Got em lmao
eah@programming.dev · 1 pts · 249d
lawl
A_Chilean_Cyborg@feddit.cl · 11 pts · 250d
Lemmy is full of boomers Who sometimes feel they never have meet a person in their 20's, as a gen Z, I have only one thing to say, lol
thatradomguy@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 250d
FQQD@lemmy.ohaa.xyz · 11 pts · 250d
xd
Laser@feddit.org · 10 pts · 250d
If you are particularly deranged, you can also use "^^"
MonkderVierte@lemmy.zip · 7 pts · 250d
Kitty!
Laser@feddit.org · 5 pts · 250d
These are not cat ears, but rather squinted eyes of a happy face
At least that was my interpretation at the time
OpenStars@piefed.social · 4 pts · 250d
So cute! uWu
(am I doing this right?)
TheMinions@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 2 pts · 250d
Are you trying to do ^_^
Laser@feddit.org · 3 pts · 250d
No
Una@europe.pub · 10 pts · 250d
:3
PalmTreeIsBestTree@lemmy.world · 9 pts · 249d
I am late 90s Gen Z and still do it. I guess I am lame and cringe now huh?
baatliwala@lemmy.world · 9 pts · 249d
I use this too much lol
JackbyDev@programming.dev · 2 pts · 249d
same lol
Speculater@lemmy.world · 8 pts · 250d
Lol, no.
kittenzrulz123@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 8 pts · 250d
I end every sentence with :3
gherkin@piefed.social · 8 pts · 250d
No lol
anomnom@sh.itjust.works · 7 pts · 250d
Gen X/Millenial or Oregon trailer or whatever here: Having a hard time not ended every sentence with a FUCK.
FUCK
LillyPip@lemmy.ca · 7 pts · 250d
LOL lol
Ste41th@lemmy.ml · 7 pts · 250d
Fine I’ll stop, lol
Visstix@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 250d
Kek
stupidcasey@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 250d
Lol
orbituary@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 5 pts · 250d
I feel this in my bones.
PrimeMinisterKeyes@leminal.space · 5 pts · 250d
Semi-related:
joyjoy@lemmy.zip · 5 pts · 250d
Lol isn't an acronym. It's an initialism. L.O.L.
Nioxic@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 2 pts · 250d
who said it was?
joyjoy@lemmy.zip · 0 pts · 250d
The people who literally say "lol" irl
derg@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 250d
So what
Vinylraupe@lemmy.zip · 5 pts · 249d
lol xd
JackbyDev@programming.dev · 2 pts · 249d
xDDDDDDD
ITGuyLevi@programming.dev · 5 pts · 249d
Firmly Gen Y here and I use it all the damn time, but I blame that on computers not showing up until I was an awkward teen in high school and needed a neutral way to respond where people wouldn't think I was AFK. We didn't have ways to react to messages so lol and every varient (up to and including the roflcopter, lol) became our way to fill the silence. We were a generation that developed a way to communicate that you found annoying... just like every other generation, GenX gave us "Whatever" as the exclamation of frustrated, GenZ gave us stuff like "drip" for great fashion taste... GenY had a 9 key layout to type as we entered the workforce so we tried to keep it short.
deHaga@feddit.uk · 2 pts · 248d
Gen X was meh
UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 250d
🤣
OldGrayDog@lemmynsfw.com · 4 pts · 250d
LOL 🤪
sirico@feddit.uk · 4 pts · 248d
I'm so sorry for your loss lol
xorollo@leminal.space · 3 pts · 250d
Ok!
GreenKnight23@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 250d
lol 🤣
hectorcruz123@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 248d
Language habits always shift with generations. It’s interesting how small things like this become part of how people connect and express tone online.
SchwertImStein@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 2 pts · 247d
XD
thatradomguy@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 250d
wait gen z doesn't do this? so now I'm last gen? what?
justme@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 2 pts · 247d
Still better than spamming useless cancer emojis.
BlameTheAntifa@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 248d
I am gen x and I regret that I once engaged in this. I am so very sorry.
iatenine@piefed.social · 0 pts · 250d
This always felt like a boomer/zoomer thing to me
TheMinions@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 10 pts · 250d
I think millennials don’t like to do a hard stop at the end of sentences. It feels overly harsh* or something, so I’ve heard, lol.
pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 7 pts · 250d
vs
The full stop feels way more serious to me, like an accusation. It feels like something that your manager might say before pip-ing you. The latter feels way less serious, like a friend about to remind you that you're meeting up later today so you don't forget. Periods mean serious. On the other side, lol means light hearted. "I don't think you're on top of things lol" is like something a friend would say after I lay out my elaborate plan that misses something totally obvious
Zephorah@discuss.online · 9 pts · 250d
No, a boomer may still ask what lol means.
orbituary@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 6 pts · 250d
Lots of love
OpenStars@piefed.social · 4 pts · 250d
I thought it changed now to something to do with Labubus...