“If a man has a little fight with the wife, they say this was a crime”

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Brunbrun6766@lemmy.world · 146 pts · 324d (11 replies)

I mean yes this is bad, but America is not going to end itself just because women have rights. A lot more to it than that reductive take

Kolanaki@pawb.social · 148 pts · 324d (9 replies)

Right? It's not just women. But also because POC have rights. And gays. And because trans people exist.

someguy3@lemmy.world · 42 pts · 324d (3 replies)

You forgot Islam, Buddhism, Hinduism, Sikh(ism?), and [clutches pearls] Atheists!!

SeductiveTortoise@piefed.social · 20 pts · 324d (2 replies)

And those people that... how do you call non millionaires? Ah, scum! Filth!!!

rumschlumpel@feddit.org · 5 pts · 323d (1 reply)

We can fix that with a little inflation!

SeductiveTortoise@piefed.social · 4 pts · 323d

Poor people love this simple trick!

primrosepathspeedrun@anarchist.nexus · 19 pts · 324d

Yeah. Just one would be something america coukd stand –maybe, for cooler guns and bigger bombs. But all at once?

Serinus@lemmy.world · 12 pts · 324d (1 reply)

It's not like all this is going to benefit most straight white males either. Pretty sure that retirement age is going up for everyone. (Among other problems.)

Kolanaki@pawb.social · 11 pts · 324d

Not the poor ones, no. That's yet another group they want to be rid of.

fluffykittycat@slrpnk.net · 4 pts · 324d

It's our job to remake America into something unrecognizable, since the status who won't accept us

saltesc@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 324d

Yeah, but second best isnt the best, so fuck everyone else,we're bringing this shit down.

Zombie@feddit.uk · 30 pts · 323d

This is also part of it.

Fascism begins the moment a ruling class, fearing the people may use their political democracy to gain economic democracy, begins to destroy political democracy in order to retain its power of exploitation and special privilege.

  • Tommy Douglas

https://en.m.wikiquote.org/wiki/Tommy_Douglas

Thomas Clement Douglas PC MP CC SOM MA LL.D (20 October 1904 – 24 February 1986) was a Scottish Canadian politician who served as Premier of Saskatchewan from 1944 to 1961 and Leader of the New Democratic Party from 1961 to 1971.... ...Douglas was voted "The Greatest Canadian" of all time in a nationally televised contest organized by the Canadian Broadcasting Corporation in 2004.

Global_Liberty@lemmy.ml · 101 pts · 324d (1 reply)

45% of female voters cast their ballot for Trump.

chunes@lemmy.world · 35 pts · 323d

And the majority of white women.

dohpaz42@lemmy.world · 74 pts · 324d (8 replies)

Honestly, if women, as well as persons of color and the LGBTQIA+ community, having rights and freedoms is such a threat to America - both as a country and a “way of life” - and they cannot coexist, then as an American I would happily say goodbye to America.

What that means, and how that would work, scares the ever loving shit out of me, but no one deserves the shit America does to them.

rumschlumpel@feddit.org · 35 pts · 324d (5 replies)

If you're going to emigrate, you better do it fast. I wouldn't bet that it's still possible without significant effort ("hide for 1000 miles in a lead-lined suitcase in a car trunk"-levels of effort) in a year - locking in their population is a really common thing in dictatorships, and AFAIK confiscated passports (if you had a proper passport in the first place) are already a thing in the US.

Plus, if there's ever a mass emigration wave, many of the more desirable destion countries are definitely going to close the door to you. AFAIK it's already fairly complicated to emigrate from the US to most european countries.

Mrkawfee@feddit.uk · 13 pts · 323d (2 replies)

Israel literally stops people from emigrating.

rumschlumpel@feddit.org · 17 pts · 323d (1 reply)

I was thinking more along the lines of the German Democratic Republic or North Korea - Israel at least lets its Jewish population emigrate, but in many dictatorships, absolutely no one is allowed to. Not sure which it's going to be, Apartheit-style or North Korea-style, but if you're not part of the ingroup, the difference probably doesn't matter.

MrsDoyle@sh.itjust.works · 7 pts · 323d

I remember meeting a guy from East Berlin soon after the Wall fell, he was super excited at getting to travel outside the GDR (we were in Kenya).

Soggy@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 323d (1 reply)

Depends on how other countries (particularly Canada) would feel about refugees.

rumschlumpel@feddit.org · 2 pts · 323d

Judging by what I've seen so far, wealthy countries don't care for refugees even if they're well-educated people from the US. On top of that, the US is able to exert pressure on most western countries to not make them recognize the US as unsafe for asylum seekers, even if a destination country wants to do it.

Maybe something like Brazil might be an option, but it's politically volatile - next time it has a rightwing government, all the US refugees might be shipped back to the US. Seems like at this point, all the countries that are consistently willing to oppose the US are either not much better or too volatile to be sure that they won't turn on you.

ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world · 7 pts · 323d

It's not a threat to America, but to a few elites, christian fundamentalists, and white nationalists. They just convinced others to follow suit.

FordBeeblebrox@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 323d

I feel the same, but also fuck that I was born here and I will not be run off by goddamn nazis. On one hand I’d like to leave, the other hand would like to punch every fascist over and over until THEY fuck off.

miss_demeanour@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 47 pts · 324d

[O]n one occasion during 1989, Mr. Trump and I had marital relations in which he behaved very differently toward me than he had during our marriage. As a woman, I felt violated, as the love and tenderness, which he normally exhibited towards me, was absent. I referred to this as a "rape", but I do not want my words to be interpreted in a literal or criminal sense.[34]

Shanmugha@lemmy.world · 35 pts · 323d (3 replies)

Oh, America is not alone here. Plenty of places without even that one generation

Honestly, I have to suspect a giant coordinated effort against women and feminine aspect of life spanning damn hundreds, if not thousands, of years. Otherwise I cannot fathom and explanation of how things have gone so ugly for so long

Quill7513@slrpnk.net · 20 pts · 323d (2 replies)

and that's the patriarchy. if it was the natural order it wouldn't require so much energy to maintain

floop@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 2 pts · 322d
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floo@retrolemmy.com · 1 pts · 322d
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pineapplelover@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 32 pts · 323d (3 replies)

And a couple generations earlier (1920), women finally got the right to vote.

Korhaka@sopuli.xyz · 25 pts · 323d (1 reply)

We had to fight for the rights we have and you must fight to keep them.

stinky@redlemmy.com · 4 pts · 323d

Any means necessary

Regdok@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 322d

Wasn't until 1965 all women (of any shade) gained universal suffrage in the USA, with the passing of the Voting Rights Act.

Anyways, this is an interesting list: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Timeline_of_women's_suffrage

PugJesus@piefed.social · 27 pts · 324d (4 replies)

Hard-fought victories eroded one at a time, and then all at once.

Fuck.

Eyron@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 322d

To me, it's unclear what "hard-fought" means here. Are there any rights that aren't hard-fought? Are hard-fought rights different from the other ones?

Every right we have has been fought for. The fights often came at a significant cost, with sacrifice, and required conviction. I remember how "hard-fought" was used, and what it used to mean, so it really makes me wonder how you're using it.

gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de · -3 pts · 323d (2 replies)

Hard-fought victories

I don't think women's rights (especially the right to work) have been "hard-fought" in any way.

Sure there have been protests and riots of women who demanded these rights, but that did jack shit to change the situation. What really changed the situation was the insight of capitalists that they could get more workers, and thus more productive ability, if women joined the workforce. All it took for that is to influence the media to make these new policies seem preferable, and the people accepted it.

PugJesus@piefed.social · 4 pts · 323d (1 reply)

That's an utterly fucking bizarre position considering that women in the workplace far predate women's rights.

Jiggle_Physics@sh.itjust.works · 5 pts · 323d

This is, unfortunately, a common libertarian take. The best economic decision says to not discriminate as the more workers you have, the more you produce, thus the free market is what really created these civil rights.

It completely ignores history, but that is a pretty common libertarian take.

mechoman444@lemmy.world · 25 pts · 323d (1 reply)

The post isn’t wrong, but there’s some nuance to it. With the credit thing, it’s true that women couldn’t reliably get their own credit until 1974. That’s when the Equal Credit Opportunity Act passed, which finally made it illegal for banks to require a husband or male co-signer. Before that, a lot of women could be and were turned away outright, even if they had the income to qualify. So the way it’s phrased is a bit simplified, but the gist is accurate.

The marital rape part is more complicated. Nebraska was actually the first state to outlaw it in 1976, and then other states slowly followed. By 1993, every state had removed the explicit marital exemption from their rape laws. That said, a lot of states still had narrower definitions, weaker penalties, or loopholes, so saying it became “illegal nationwide in 1994” smooths over a messy process. What really happened is that by the early ’90s, no state could outright say “marital rape doesn’t exist” anymore, but enforcement and protections still varied a lot.

So, while the tweet compresses the details, the broader point stands: these changes are incredibly recent. We’re only a generation or two removed from a time when women couldn’t open a line of credit on their own and had virtually no legal protection if their husbands assaulted them.

redhorsejacket@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 322d

Neat! Another esoteric Nebraska factoid to add to my Rolodex. Thanks for the additional context.

stinky@redlemmy.com · 21 pts · 323d

Gays: yeah, we know.

Homosexuality was removed from the DSM (classification of mental disorders, for which people were institutionalized against their will) also in 1974. Big year for civil rights I guess.

Beebabe@lemmy.world · 18 pts · 324d

This quote was so, so upsetting as a survivor.

Pyro@programming.dev · 14 pts · 324d (2 replies)

Is the title a quote from something?

Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works · 42 pts · 324d (1 reply)

Direct quote from Trump's mouth a few days ago. With regard to crime in DC while he's had the National Guard in.

Come to think of it, Melania was wearing a hat that completely blocked her face from cameras ....

prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 323d

Wouldn't surprise me if that was her choice in an attempt to prevent her face from appearing too often in future history textbooks.

LadyMeow@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 13 pts · 324d

Sooooooo depresssssssinggggggg

jsomae@lemmy.ml · 9 pts · 323d (1 reply)

51 years is 2 generations.

LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 322d

Yep, I'm 50 years old and my mom was in the first generation to have her own credit cards.

DicJacobus@lemmy.world · 9 pts · 322d

Republican America is just English speaking Russia.

Russia decriminalized spousal abuse in the 2010s and it directley led to a wave of women losing their lives because the police didnt even bother showing up when their partners were beating the brakes off them.

Legally, Russia changed domestic violence from a criminal offense (under Article 116 of the Criminal Code) into an administrative infraction with only fines or short detentions for "first-time, non-serious cases."

and if you can believe it, the champion of this "conservative, traditional values" policy, was a woman.

ZeroGravitas@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 6 pts · 323d

Quote aside, Catherynne is a great writer and all around human being. If you like fantasy, look her up.

WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today · 3 pts · 323d

I was born 1995. Yikes! I can't believe that.

MotoAsh@piefed.social · 1 pts · 298d

This is utterly stupid to blame women getting rights as the cause for the inevitable fascist takeover of the US...

I understand she's probably a great person, but using reductive logic even as an unobvious joke is harmful to idiots, and most of the country is idiots.

jsomae@lemmy.ml · 1 pts · 323d

I think the regime probably seems pretty good to pro-life anti-queer christian white and east-asian women.

LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.world · -9 pts · 323d
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minorkeys@lemmy.world · -29 pts · 324d (8 replies)
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shawn1122@sh.itjust.works · 16 pts · 324d (1 reply)

Actually the post is about America which is only a small minority of the world.

zergtoshi@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 323d

In fact it's about the US of America, which is an even smaller minority of the world, because it's merely a subset of the Americas, and only a part of Noth America.

andros_rex@lemmy.world · 10 pts · 324d (3 replies)

Yeah, pointing out that your grandpa probably repeatedly raped grandma and that she didn’t have a choice in marrying him is “making the entire world about women.”

minorkeys@lemmy.world · -10 pts · 324d (2 replies)
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SaharaMaleikuhm@feddit.org · 5 pts · 323d (1 reply)

It's an example. You can't list every god damn thing in a meme and if you did, you knucklehead would not read it. My god, use your brain. You go ahead and make a meme about whatever thing bothers you the most. But no, all you do is complain.

minorkeys@lemmy.world · -6 pts · 323d
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AquaTofana@lemmy.world · 0 pts · 323d (1 reply)

Ew. What a shit take. Your misogyny is showing.

minorkeys@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 323d

How is it misogyny?

CallMeAnAI@lemmy.world · -43 pts · 324d (5 replies)

That's absurd. We've backtracked 50 years of one of the more progressive nations with regards to women, not 200. Entirely rage bait without nuance.

Chozo@fedia.io · 32 pts · 324d

Oh yes, we should consider the nuance to wife-beating. Right.

0_o7@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 26 pts · 324d

fucktards literally voted in a senile rapist with a history of financial fraud and bankruptcy because the other option was a female. You were literally segregating people just based on color of their skin 50 years ago so thats a low bar. You have states that literally ban life saving abortions. The church influences your government like the 1800s. Political bribes are legal because founding fathers wanted just the rich to run the country. Invades countries without any repercussions for war crimes.

You’re a third world country in a gucci belt.

Much of the development happened because the enormous wealth in the stolen lands and brain drain from countries you sabotage or by hiring literal nazis. The founding fathers knowingly paved ways for redneck nazis with how they created broad legislation to benefit the rich white male, but propaganda and hollywood creates a progressive smokescreen.

Time for some introspection.

apenstaartje@lemmy.cafe · 9 pts · 324d

….. what?! lol

Lazylazycat@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 323d

"We only want to make rape and forced breeding legal again, what's the issue here?".

zergtoshi@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 323d

The only ragebait I can spot is your comment.
No facts, lots of polemics.
Quite well done for a user that want to be called an AI.

Harbinger01173430@lemmy.world · -73 pts · 323d (25 replies)
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smiletolerantly@awful.systems · 45 pts · 323d

See kids? This is why you never poke the pencil all the way up your nose.

Pelicanen@sopuli.xyz · 31 pts · 323d (7 replies)

...what?

Society survives because of all its members, if women just stopped providing then society would collapse. They have been coerced using oppression and force to keep providing despite discrimination, not thanks to it.

How is it undesirable for any reasonable person, man or woman, to have equal rights?

ethaver@kbin.earth · 4 pts · 323d

fucking womb envy again

idgi personally I keep trying to donate mine, but some men have a serious complex about it

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stinky@redlemmy.com · 1 pts · 323d

Hey so this is actually correct

zarkanian@sh.itjust.works · -7 pts · 323d (3 replies)

There's actually a fairly compelling argument that women will destroy civilization if they don't have equal rights. They're more likely to produce children if they aren't finding fulfillment in other ways (e.g. having a successful career). More children = more strain on the biosphere (increasing climate change, wars, pandemics, etc.)

ethaver@kbin.earth · 1 pts · 323d

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NocturnalMorning@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 323d (1 reply)

Are you just trying to come up with the most asinine insane takes to argue with people? Or do you actually believe this horse shit that youre typing...?

zarkanian@sh.itjust.works · 1 pts · 323d

Where's the error in that argument? I didn't come up with it, BTW. Isaac Asimov argues this in an essay in his book The Roving Mind.

I support feminism in any case for other reasons, but I think it's interesting that there's a strong argument for it even if you're a misogynist.

PeacefulForest@lemmy.world · 21 pts · 323d
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BlackRoseAmongThorns@slrpnk.net · 7 pts · 323d

Report and move on everyone, this is cheap rage bait.

ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 323d (1 reply)

Go back to the nazi app, incel!

Harbinger01173430@lemmy.world · -4 pts · 323d
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T00l_shed@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 323d

You've made me stupider for having read that, still not as stupid as what you wrote though

zarkanian@sh.itjust.works · 4 pts · 323d

[citation needed]

Jax@sh.itjust.works · 4 pts · 323d

I miss when you monkeys stayed in your pens on 4chan

Amnesigenic@lemmy.ml · 4 pts · 323d

Lol goddamn you're dumb

SkaveRat@discuss.tchncs.de · 3 pts · 323d

Go Play with your Twitter toy, Elon

Aganim@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 323d

As a man I distance myself so far from this post I've now advanced to the stars and beyond.

mechoman444@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 323d

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Omg thanks for the laugh. I can't tell if you're serious or if this is satire but good Lord you cheered me up!

Taleya@aussie.zone · 2 pts · 323d

Hahahahahahahaha good one, dipshit.

stinky@redlemmy.com · 1 pts · 323d (2 replies)

Do you know that gay people exist?

Do you expect gay men to make straight men happy? Do you expect gay women to make straight men happy?

Or, what was your plan for them?

Harbinger01173430@lemmy.world · -5 pts · 323d (1 reply)
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stinky@redlemmy.com · 1 pts · 323d

we have a purpose now lol

SharkAttak@kbin.melroy.org · 1 pts · 322d

If they find it "undesirable", they aren't men.