fedi is my home

https://timeloop.cafe/@Taweret/116026253299154536

i deadass quit all other social media

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Gork@sopuli.xyz · 159 pts · 192d (1 reply)

This is technically correct, which is the best kind of correct.

YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today · 26 pts · 192d

Bureaucrat level up!

vpol@feddit.uk · 158 pts · 192d (2 replies)

It’s because the other internet is ruled by tyrants and pedophiles.

Virtvirt588@lemmy.world · 22 pts · 192d (1 reply)

Most probably nepophiles as well. Or just basically sex offenders of all categories.

decipher_jeanne@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 192d
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Ep1cFac3pa1m@lemmy.world · 113 pts · 192d (3 replies)

But I’m here, and I’m not neurodiver…ah beans

janus2@lemmy.zip · 56 pts · 192d (2 replies)

one of us
one of us

MousePotatoDoesStuff@lemmy.world · 25 pts · 192d (1 reply)

one of us

one of us

Zombie@feddit.uk · 13 pts · 192d

GROND

GROND

GROND

GROND!

TropicalDingdong@lemmy.world · 84 pts · 192d

Tilgare@lemmy.world · 82 pts · 192d (12 replies)

Neurodivergent, certainly. But I also have a sneaking suspicion that a large majority of us are millenials. We've gone through this repeatedly in the internet age, changing chat or social platforms. We're the early adopters and eventually everybody on earth comes to crush it to death and then we rebuild somewhere else.

umbraroze@slrpnk.net · 36 pts · 192d (4 replies)

And for us Gen-X/Gen-Y folks, all the Fediverse needed to do was to say "it'll be just like the Internet in the 1990s" and we were like "HELL YEAH SIGN ME UP"

Gives me BBS era / Usenet vibes, yesss

Tilgare@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 191d (2 replies)

Yes! The millenials too though. We're as nostalgic (or maybe even more nostalgic) for the 90s internet because it was our entire childhoods.

NikkiDimes@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 191d (1 reply)

(Millennial is gen Y 😜)

Tilgare@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 191d

Oh, yeah. I never see it used and it didn't even register. 🤦

rain_worl@lemmy.world · 0 pts · 168d

i'm gen z(?) :3

not_IO@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 8 pts · 192d (3 replies)

you say that but i just saw this post about the Formulars for different kinds of rizz in my time line

Tlf@feddit.org · 5 pts · 192d (1 reply)

I wish this would not have made sense to me, but I think I get what they are trying to say. Enough Internet for today, it makes me feel weird

SuperUserDO@piefed.ca · 3 pts · 192d

No. It's not enough Internet.

It means your one with the Internet.

I for one however wish they had included some some weighted calculations.

Tilgare@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 191d

I already told you I'm a millennial, so you already know I am too old to understand this shit. 😂

LadyButterfly@reddthat.com · 4 pts · 192d

Yep! I remember message boards and the glory of bb code, when DMs were called PMs and everyone knew each other's name.

Turret3857@infosec.pub · 1 pts · 191d (1 reply)

Generation has nothing to do with it. Tech literary does.

texture@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 191d

nothing? idk about that

Draegur@lemmy.zip · 68 pts · 192d (8 replies)

I much prefer this, our own internet, but without the "blackjack and hookers".

(I'd like to think that OUR Sex Workers are ethically sourced owners of their own means of production rather than trafficked and/or exploited by pimps or other parasitic human vermin... but one must remain vigilant.)

MousePotatoDoesStuff@lemmy.world · 26 pts · 192d

unionised sex workers

TheBat@lemmy.world · 9 pts · 192d (5 replies)
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davidagain@lemmy.world · 27 pts · 192d (3 replies)

lemmynsfw.com

TheBat@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 192d (2 replies)
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aBundleOfFerrets@sh.itjust.works · 10 pts · 192d

Where it isn’t illegal and ostracized 👍

TheJesusaurus@piefed.ca · 2 pts · 192d

Australia

GreenShimada@lemmy.world · 9 pts · 192d

I expect they mean users on lemmynsfw.com or whatever it is.

not_IO@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 192d

yeah i was about to put that as a title but I didn't for those exact reasons

umbraroze@slrpnk.net · 58 pts · 192d (3 replies)

Well to be fair, there's not just neurodivergent people in the Fediverse.

There's also a bunch of queer people. And furries.

Also neurodivergent queer people, neurodivergent furries, queer furries, and neurodivergent queer furries. Duh.

Acid_Burn@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 23 pts · 192d

FreddiesLantern@leminal.space · 9 pts · 192d

In other words, all the cool kids.

Azzu@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 8 pts · 192d

Isn't queer technically also neurodivergent?

nerfherder@lemmy.world · 52 pts · 192d

I see nothing wrong about this. Carry on.

MisterNeon@lemmy.world · 42 pts · 192d (1 reply)

The normies are self destructive.

mattyroses@lemmy.today · 5 pts · 192d

Normie Deathwish

GreenShimada@lemmy.world · 39 pts · 192d (1 reply)

Which internet should I be on? The one that's ran by friends of a pedo? Or the one ran by a pedo's company? Or the one with an actual, 100% for real, CSAM-generator built into it that was too weird to get to be as much of a pedo as he wanted to be?

Let's get some more posts about spoon design, OK? I like the validation.

cmbabul@lemmy.world · 9 pts · 192d

It does kinda make me feel slightly happy that Elon is a loser in every circle he’s ever wanted to be part of

janus2@lemmy.zip · 38 pts · 192d (4 replies)

no ad revenue, no fake internet points, we just post for the love of the game

SnoringEarthworm@sh.itjust.works · 15 pts · 192d

Well said! Here, have an upvote!

jaybone@lemmy.zip · 3 pts · 192d (2 replies)

I hate the game.

What is the game?

Broadfern@lemmy.world · 12 pts · 192d (1 reply)

You just lost it, sorry

jjjalljs@ttrpg.network · 4 pts · 192d

Ooh I remember that. That game was really popular in my friend group around 2008-ish. It spread to my work, too. Someone put a post-it note about the game by the time clock, and someone else invented a hand signal for it.

Rooty@lemmy.world · 37 pts · 192d

The Fediverse really seems like the late 90's/early 00's internet, before the influx of corporate silo media. So far folks here are more or less ok, and the lack of deliberate ragebait pushing is refreshing.

mattyroses@lemmy.today · 36 pts · 192d (4 replies)

It's just a return to where internet access was a filter, and you didn't have Boomers on MySpace and phpBB

jaybone@lemmy.zip · 7 pts · 192d (2 replies)

Boomers were not on MySpace or “phoBB”. Those were really old GenX and they mainly ended up on Facebook first.

edible_funk@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 192d

No, myspace was elder millennials. GenX had IRC.

mattyroses@lemmy.today · 4 pts · 192d

Yeah, that's the point. Those spaces weren't like today's Facebook because the online population was self-selected at that point.

not_IO@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 1 pts · 192d

you might be right, are normies doomed to be bombarded with shit no matter where they go? be if tv or fb

ViatorOmnium@piefed.social · 30 pts · 192d

While the rest of social media is where neurotypical people go to talk with bots?

usernameusername@sh.itjust.works · 27 pts · 192d (1 reply)

the fediverse is the internet in its most internet state

LodeMike@lemmy.today · 5 pts · 191d

Yes - it all comes crashing down if DNS fails

MousePotatoDoesStuff@lemmy.world · 26 pts · 192d (13 replies)

also, there's no karma system and no karma farming

and we can say unpopular things without worrying about downvotes

uh

eating pizza with a fork and knife is kinda enjoyable

you get to taste more pizza per pizza, and you take your time to savor it

Acid_Burn@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 6 pts · 192d (4 replies)

How do you feel about eating Cheetos with chopsticks?

Rug_Pisser@piefed.zip · 5 pts · 192d

If I'm gaming then it's a necessity.

callyral@pawb.social · 3 pts · 192d

Better than eating Cheetos with a fork, probably

MousePotatoDoesStuff@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 192d

sounds like a fun challenge

FauxLiving@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 192d

Only as part of a balanced meal to include a Hawaiian pizza and a delicious cake, like a cheesecake

jaybone@lemmy.zip · 6 pts · 192d

You also don’t get your hands dirty.

fossilesque@mander.xyz · 5 pts · 192d
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Rhaedas@fedia.io · 3 pts · 192d (2 replies)

Sith, absolutes, etc. It depends on the pizza.

toynbee@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 192d (1 reply)

I've always been amused by the fact that that statement was, itself, an absolute.

Rhaedas@fedia.io · 1 pts · 192d

Never looked into it. Wonder if it was an intentional play on the idea by Lucas or just an accident of the script. But the subtle "we're ALL hypocrites" is great.

DakRalter@thelemmy.club · 1 pts · 191d (2 replies)

Broccoli on pizza is nice. Just parboil it first so it doesn't burn. It gets a really nice warm, slightly earthy taste when baked on pizza.

MousePotatoDoesStuff@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 191d (1 reply)

You do you and I'm glad you enjoy it, but I'm too autistic to let broccoli anywhere near my pizza.

"Oh, but it's healthy and good for you and you gotta try more things in life an-"

I.

DON'T.

CARE.

DakRalter@thelemmy.club · 2 pts · 191d

Hmm, are you suggesting I'm not autistic enough?* 🤔🤔

I'm not gonna force you to try! I'm just putting it out there.

How about carrots?

*this is a jk

davidagain@lemmy.world · 25 pts · 192d

I find I have no evidence to rebut this claim.

TehBamski@lemmy.world · 24 pts · 192d

RustyShackleford@piefed.social · 22 pts · 192d

RedFrank24@piefed.social · 21 pts · 192d (11 replies)

It's a very specific subset of neurodivergents, tbh. I don't see much discussion around typically geeky topics. On Reddit, if I had a fleeting thought or question about a fictional world, I had /r/asksciencefiction. On the fediverse? No such board. The answer to that is "Oh just create it", but I don't have the time or the attention span to moderate such a place.

fossilesque@mander.xyz · 12 pts · 192d (1 reply)
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MeThisGuy@feddit.nl · 3 pts · 192d

no spam, but I am not subscribed. thx!

CombatWombatEsq@lemmy.world · 10 pts · 192d (2 replies)
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Killer_Tree@sh.itjust.works · 7 pts · 192d (1 reply)

While that may be true, for some of us the simple IDEA of maybe needing to do something in the future that you might mess up is demotivating enough to prevent action. For that reason and many others, I appreciate people like you who make things happen.

CombatWombatEsq@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 192d
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brucethemoose@lemmy.world · 8 pts · 192d (1 reply)

TBH this disappeared on Reddit too. All my preferred fandom subs are now cesspools, with zero depth in fandom knowledge yet weird, cultish worshipping of the material. Bigger general subs feel like bot farms.

Piefed's /c/television is 1000x better.

But the best places on the internet for that are probably the TVTropes forums, SpaceBattles, and other "surviving" fiction boards.

pineapplelover@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 4 pts · 192d

!television@piefed.social

Link here

Zink@programming.dev · 3 pts · 192d

When it comes to "traditionally geeky topics" I might have been looking for that stuff at most other points of my life. And if somebody gets into some dorky lore discussion on here today I might participate.

But for me, and I would wager it's the same with MANY people on Lemmy, the last decade has made me very much not interested in filling my social interactions with banter about which billion-dollar global brands are the most dank.

As an example, I am still very interested in technology that I can learn about and do things with. I am very much not interested in products from tech companies.

Or in another area, I still have a soft spot for old Star Wars and especially Lucasarts games like TIE Figther and X-Wing Alliance. I will always keep my old copies of those and probably play them every several years. But I don't even know what Star Wars content is in development right now.

brucethemoose@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 192d (1 reply)

Also, I want to change this. I have some fandom/fictions posts in mind...

But my executive dysfunction is taking a toll. Laughs nervously.

fossilesque@mander.xyz · 1 pts · 192d
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architect@thelemmy.club · 1 pts · 192d

I don’t know probably is more that those of us on here. Don’t place much value on answers to things like that. So yeah, a different subset of neurodivergent people.

(Speech to text my apologies)

rotkehlchen@sh.itjust.works · 21 pts · 192d

This should be the motto of the fediverse.

Zephorah@discuss.online · 17 pts · 192d

Not really. It’s simply more authentic than Reddit. And, no ads.

Una@europe.pub · 17 pts · 192d (6 replies)

Nah, I ain't neurodivergent everything else is true.

RVGamer06@sh.itjust.works · 18 pts · 192d (2 replies)

You need more vaccines /s

Una@europe.pub · 10 pts · 192d (1 reply)

I may need to drink 5 shots of Tylenol everyday

aBundleOfFerrets@sh.itjust.works · 13 pts · 192d

Please don’t, you will get liver failure before autism

fakeman_pretendname@feddit.uk · 11 pts · 192d

You might say that now, but each time you post on here your neuro diverges a little.

not_IO@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 3 pts · 192d (1 reply)

does meowing at everyone not qualify?:3

Una@europe.pub · 1 pts · 192d

Idk

Mangoholic@lemmy.ml · 16 pts · 192d (1 reply)

No fediverse is the internet. Meta, X etc. are not.

Cromer4ever@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 192d

I support your words

5too@lemmy.world · 16 pts · 192d (3 replies)

Isn't that why/how the Internet was created?

zaphod@sopuli.xyz · 10 pts · 192d (2 replies)

Yeah, and then the corpos created platforms to bring the non-neurodivergent people to the internet.

Biohive@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 192d (1 reply)

More power to e'm. There's room for both, mostly... I think.

OleFoFa@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 192d

....HEY,somebody get 'em! They're thinking! Stop them!

jagermo@feddit.org · 14 pts · 192d (1 reply)

That's the killer app for the fediverse. Because non of y'all have the attention span to become a long-term influencer turned into a grifter. And I love it.

Broadfern@lemmy.world · 7 pts · 192d

I have never been so insulted and flattered at the same time. Bravo

TankovayaDiviziya@lemmy.world · 12 pts · 192d (7 replies)

That's the Internet in general to begin with.

fakeman_pretendname@feddit.uk · 15 pts · 192d (5 replies)

...until the "money people" started getting involved.

tetris11@feddit.uk · 11 pts · 192d (4 replies)

Yup, and yup.

Golden age: "Let's share ideas freely and argue over semantics"
Silver age: "Let's share everything freely and jerk off to it, ignoring the ads"
Bronze age: "Let's share nothing, stream everything, visit 5 websites, and buy buy buy."

Rhaedas@fedia.io · 7 pts · 192d (3 replies)

It would be "argue about semantics".

tetris11@feddit.uk · 4 pts · 192d (2 replies)

"argue" itself lends a negative creedence on what is likely a mild discussion. "Ponder" might be more correct

Rhaedas@fedia.io · 3 pts · 192d (1 reply)

There was nothing mild about Usenet discussions, but I agree that how one might have conversations about such things can be very broad.

jaybone@lemmy.zip · 6 pts · 192d

No that’s the other Internet.

pyre@lemmy.world · 11 pts · 192d

Shanmugha@lemmy.world · 11 pts · 192d

And I feel good for it. Thanks to all the folks out there who are making it happen

Aberration13@lemmy.world · 10 pts · 192d

was this not the intended use?

phoenixz@lemmy.ca · 8 pts · 192d (2 replies)

Eh, there are non neuro divergents as well, there are dozens of us, I tell ya!

DakRalter@thelemmy.club · 1 pts · 191d

On the fediverse, we NDs are the dominant neurotypes, so technically, NTs are the neurodivergent ones here. Either way, you are now ND. There is no escape.

OleFoFa@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 192d

Dozens!

Cromer4ever@lemmy.world · 8 pts · 192d

Ever since I discovered this side of the internet, I love it and I'll never leave it.

AdolfSchmitler@lemmy.world · 8 pts · 192d

Sounds like a dream tbh

sober_monk@lemmy.world · 7 pts · 192d

Yup. I fucking love it here.

MonkderVierte@lemmy.zip · 5 pts · 192d

Also, i can sort & filter by myself, rather than a engagement-farming corpo does it.

Routhinator@lemmy.ca · 5 pts · 192d (1 reply)

I feel called out.

davidagain@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 192d

Not called out, seen.

Formfiller@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 192d

Or because we got shadow banned for speaking the truth

BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today · 5 pts · 192d

I'm not neurodivergent (at least not any more than most), but I've been to the other Internet, and it really sucks.

texture@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 191d

i do like it here :3

SirHaxalot@nord.pub · 4 pts · 192d

I feel personally attacked.

aesthelete@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 192d

Sounds great TBH

architect@thelemmy.club · 3 pts · 192d

Yes? And?

null@piefed.nullspace.lol · 3 pts · 192d

Fucking absolutely.

m3t00@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 191d

if all there was is subscription slop. i'd choose off.

chilicheeselies@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 190d

Its beautiful

Eh_I@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 192d

Unlike twitler, where one neurodivergent bought their own internet.

A_norny_mousse@piefed.zip · 1 pts · 192d

Yes but aren't we all to some extent?

Prikkeres@feddit.nl · 1 pts · 192d

Exactly this!

odelik@lemmy.today · 1 pts · 190d

mavu@discuss.tchncs.de · 1 pts · 192d (4 replies)

yes, and?

ulterno@programming.dev · 3 pts · 192d (3 replies)
  1. And then some other not in-the-loop getting the neurotypicals on-board
  2. ?
  3. ??
  4. ???
  5. It becomes another nazi bar.
mavu@discuss.tchncs.de · 3 pts · 192d (1 reply)

See, common misconception.

The "Fediverse" can never become a Nazi bar. At most, it can become Several different Fediverses that are not connected to each other anymore. Which is fine.

ulterno@programming.dev · 2 pts · 192d

Yeah. But I'm afraid it might also happen that the Nazi bar gets state sponsored while others have to hide in deep webs.

Teacrumble@lemmy.wtf · 2 pts · 192d

Fedichan here I come

Sam_Bass@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 192d (4 replies)

Same can be said for X and trumps shithole boards

REDACTED@infosec.pub · 0 pts · 192d (3 replies)

How so?

Sam_Bass@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 191d (2 replies)

They are just as much a microcosm of societal misfit ideologies as this place, thats how

REDACTED@infosec.pub · 1 pts · 191d (1 reply)

Reminder that Trump won majority vote

Sam_Bass@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 191d

He had musk and his doges steal it for him. Not gonna convince me otherwise

TractorDuffy@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 192d (1 reply)

i have schizo effective bipolar disorder, am i neurodivergent?

webghost0101@sopuli.xyz · 1 pts · 192d

Anyone who is not typically normal, is welcome in neurodivergent club.

Hell, even some neurotypicals are welcome in neurodivergent club, as long as they are open minded and accept us as equals/treat us that way.

zr0@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 1 pts · 192d

Unfortunately not all of them are. Some of them just had no home before the fediverse. That’s why Lemmy exists.