Lady, people aren't chocolates. D'you know what they are mostly? Bastards. Bastard-coated bastards with a bastard filling. But I don't find them half as annoying as I find naive bubble-headed optimists who walk around vomiting sunshine.
As far as I can tell, one of the main selling points of lemmy is actually the ability to filter out all NSFW communities, which is better than reddit where they conflate "nsfw for porn" with "nsfw for a swear word or scary topic in this text post."
If people want to express a dislike of porn or say "eh it's bad for you so stop browsing there" then I don't mind. Could just block them if it gets really excessive.
People rushing to log into their alts to declare anyone who participates in their secretly favorite communities is a degenerate so that whoever they think monitors their primary account might discover they are A Very Good Person:
feddit.de went down when the server's disk ran full which corrupted the database, and by the time the admin (who was on a sabbatical) reacted, all backups had already been overwritten with the corrupted data.
The issue was that the instance was running on a single server, run by one person, who pays for it out of pocket and doesn't get any money back.
But my guess is, that's true for all but the biggest instances.
Lemmynsfw admin here, partially my fault but mostly not.
The other admin owned the server and the domain, suddenly he stopped responding, I started getting concerned and shit you not before all this happened I was planning on making a backup the weekend AFTER the site went down. But of course that never happened. That's the part that's my fault, I should have been backing things up ages ago.
The server is down, and I had access to the server, but not the platform it's hosted on. One day the server just... turned off. Other admin isn't responding and I have no way to get the data from the site.
I have access to, but don't own the domain. So the plan now is to look into other hosting options, like the fedihost beta program, and spin up a Lemmy and/or piefed instance and redirect from the old domain to a new one I own. But yeah unfortunately it looks like the site as it was is dead :(
Cloudflare responds with error 521 to connection attempts.
Which means the server is refusing Cloudflare connection attempts.
And it's been like that for a while.
So it's shut off, broken, or not connected.
tl/dr: Server no worky
If you want to know more, the only one who can tell you is the instance admin.
What's there to argue? It's simply untrue. How much time should I spend arguing something that's factually inaccurate?
But don't take my word for it. Look at their other reply. They admit they were just mistaken. They weren't on that instance. They were on gone wild which is on .world.
You know there's two gonewild communities, yes? One on lemmynsfw with a post from 2 days ago and that I'm a frequent contributor to, and one on .world where the last post was 2 months ago (and that I've never interacted with) that doesn't even show up in the search results without some dedicated scrolling. I'm going to say it's effectively impossible to conflate the two accidentally. It's getting kinda creepy how insistant you are that I must be wrong about doing something completely reasonable.
In her* my bad* defense I know it's been down for days, but I clicked a link to a lemmynsfw post this morning and it did open, then I tested it again a while ago and it didn't, so it is weird.
(Her) Yeah, I can still access all my posts from there (they don't host on lemmynsfw, I think images are hosted on catbox) which is also just thru federation. But there are new posts on Gonewild from two days ago, which doesn't track with the people saying it's been down for four days - I suspect the outage is intermittent, but unless the admin comes forward with info there's no way for anyone to know right now.
I know it's probably client related, but to block a sub on Jerboa I click the post, then click the sub, then I can block. Meanwhile, I'm clicking on posts of monster dongs, going to the sub dedicated to monster dongs, just to try to see fewer dongs. And so yeah, my gripe is with my client, but I'd love a long press, block sub, bing bang boom.
Same here. I block all kinds of communities, often just because they're not relevant to my interests.
I wish I knew a way to block a community without having to visit that community first, directly from my front page where a post from that community is showing up.
There is already enough of that content on the internet; basically every platform pushes it relentlessly, so we really don’t need it on Lemmy as well. If someone wants to see that they just have to go search it in whatever search engine out there.
It appears to be a movement of closeted gay men. I'd say these people need our support to achieve their final form. Send them pics of your hairy manly feet
It stands for "Men Going Their Own Way". The other person claimed MGTOW freaks are all gay. But really what it boils down to is that MGTOW is a part of a larger constellation of violently misogynistic, fascist adjacent, terminally online "men's movements", to have crawled out of the dark corners of the internet over the last decade or so.
So MGTOW, Incels, pickup artists, and other assorted weirdos all boiled up out of the same primordial internet sludge, and they're trying to hop onto Lemmy. And I think it's imperative that we bully the shit out of these dweebs.
Don't let Nazi's into your bar, or else it'll become a Nazi bar, and all that.
Yeah but isn't that the point of federated services? Join an instance that doesn't federate to the nsfw instances and you don't need to see the content you don't want. Heck I have multiple logins, one for looking at naughty stuff, one for seeing general stuff plus nsfw memes, and a mostly PG login for general use.
So, it clearly would not affect you in any way, shape or form either way, but you still want it gone. Sure buddy, try sounding virtuous in that position.
You can put anything on a CV with some carfeful wording, observe: my hobbies include apreciating fine art in a relaxing enviroment. And rythmic aerobic exercises daily.
Oh, actually, during lunch break on the interview day:
"I recall that you mentioned enjoying fine art. Who are some of your favourite artists?"
Or
"My sister is into aqua zumba, is that the kind of rhythmic exercise you're into?"
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MajorMajormajormajor@lemmy.ca · 206 pts · 171d
"if they took porn off the internet, there'd only be one website left, and it'd be called "Bring Back the Porn!" "
meejle@lemmy.world · 50 pts · 171d
That's basically what Tumblr is now
MajorMajormajormajor@lemmy.ca · 35 pts · 171d
How far the mighty have tumbled.
shyguyblue@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 170d
How the Tumblr tabled.
shyguyblue@lemmy.world · 20 pts · 171d
There's a Coxism for every situation.
FenrirIII@lemmy.world · 7 pts · 170d
Lady, people aren't chocolates. D'you know what they are mostly? Bastards. Bastard-coated bastards with a bastard filling. But I don't find them half as annoying as I find naive bubble-headed optimists who walk around vomiting sunshine.
Hikermick@lemmy.world · 7 pts · 170d
First they came for the Socialists...
Sharkticon@lemmy.zip · 106 pts · 171d
So this thread has shown a weird number of fucking Puritans on Lemmy but no answers to the question.
FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world · 37 pts · 171d
As far as I can tell, one of the main selling points of lemmy is actually the ability to filter out all NSFW communities, which is better than reddit where they conflate "nsfw for porn" with "nsfw for a swear word or scary topic in this text post."
If people want to express a dislike of porn or say "eh it's bad for you so stop browsing there" then I don't mind. Could just block them if it gets really excessive.
fluffykittycat@slrpnk.net · 11 pts · 171d
It's more like a few people loudly announce it and then get pelted with downvotes
HCSOThrowaway@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 167d
People rushing to log into their alts to declare anyone who participates in their secretly favorite communities is a degenerate so that whoever they think monitors their primary account might discover they are A Very Good Person:
bdonvr@thelemmy.club · 77 pts · 171d
From speaking with other instance admins it seems the head admin is not currently able to be contacted...
There is another lemmynsfw admin active in our chat but they do not have access to any database backups.
anon_8675309@lemmy.world · 53 pts · 171d
Bus factor strikes again.
mech@feddit.org · 24 pts · 171d
feddit.de happening strikes again.
feddit.de went down when the server's disk ran full which corrupted the database, and by the time the admin (who was on a sabbatical) reacted, all backups had already been overwritten with the corrupted data.
orochi02@feddit.org · 1 pts · 170d
That a lemmy issue in the way the Software is written or a General one?
mech@feddit.org · 6 pts · 170d
The issue was that the instance was running on a single server, run by one person, who pays for it out of pocket and doesn't get any money back.
But my guess is, that's true for all but the biggest instances.
GreenKnight23@lemmy.world · 13 pts · 171d
idyllic@leminal.space · 3 pts · 171d
::: spoiler Spoiler Unzips :::
AngryishHumanoid@lemmy.world · 62 pts · 171d
lemmyposter212@lemmy.world · 60 pts · 169d
Lemmynsfw admin here, partially my fault but mostly not.
The other admin owned the server and the domain, suddenly he stopped responding, I started getting concerned and shit you not before all this happened I was planning on making a backup the weekend AFTER the site went down. But of course that never happened. That's the part that's my fault, I should have been backing things up ages ago.
The server is down, and I had access to the server, but not the platform it's hosted on. One day the server just... turned off. Other admin isn't responding and I have no way to get the data from the site.
I have access to, but don't own the domain. So the plan now is to look into other hosting options, like the fedihost beta program, and spin up a Lemmy and/or piefed instance and redirect from the old domain to a new one I own. But yeah unfortunately it looks like the site as it was is dead :(
chris_naked_dancer@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 167d
Oh man =(
Thanks for the explanation, though, and sorry you have to deal with that!
lmmarsano@group.lt · 50 pts · 171d
An admin in their matrix room explains they lack access to revive it. It'd been intermittently going down for a while.
Kushan@lemmy.world · 19 pts · 170d
Intermittently going down seems appropriate for a NSFW instance.
mech@feddit.org · 47 pts · 171d
Cloudflare responds with error 521 to connection attempts.
Which means the server is refusing Cloudflare connection attempts.
And it's been like that for a while.
So it's shut off, broken, or not connected.
tl/dr: Server no worky
If you want to know more, the only one who can tell you is the instance admin.
etchinghillside@reddthat.com · 39 pts · 171d
It’ll be okay.
givesomefucks@lemmy.world · 19 pts · 171d
It happens to everyone eventually
TheSeveralJourneysOfReemus@lemmy.world · 25 pts · 170d
datavoid@sh.itjust.works · 24 pts · 171d
Mods are out for a quick goon, id assume
morphballganon@mtgzone.com · 6 pts · 171d
They better be checking with a doctor if they've kept it up this long
idyllic@leminal.space · 3 pts · 171d
irelephant@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 20 pts · 170d
Admin with server access went AWOL a bit ago, so they can't revive it
mudkip@lemdro.id · 16 pts · 171d
Same here - haven't been able to have a proper goon in over 4 days, and that's the only place where I source my material so...
Warl0k3@lemmy.world · 8 pts · 171d
Is it still down? Works fine for me.
Alpha71@lemmy.world · 26 pts · 171d
for me it's been four days now.
nocturne@slrpnk.net · 14 pts · 171d
Sharkticon@lemmy.zip · 6 pts · 171d
No it doesn't.
Warl0k3@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 170d
Warl0k3@lemmy.world · -4 pts · 171d
It did when I said that, but it sure isn't right now.
Edit: Hey look, it's working again! https://lemmynsfw.com/pictrs/image/89b9ce8b-247e-4ea7-9679-d84ccdec2025.jpeg (nsfw obviously)
Sharkticon@lemmy.zip · 4 pts · 171d
No it wasn't.
InnerScientist@lemmy.world · 15 pts · 171d
Oh look, this isn’t an argument!
davidagain@lemmy.world · 14 pts · 171d
Yes it is!
deadbeef79000@lemmy.nz · 6 pts · 171d
Just contradicting me isn't arguing!
lazylion_ca@lemmy.ca · 8 pts · 171d
Yes it is!
Sharkticon@lemmy.zip · 4 pts · 171d
What's there to argue? It's simply untrue. How much time should I spend arguing something that's factually inaccurate?
But don't take my word for it. Look at their other reply. They admit they were just mistaken. They weren't on that instance. They were on gone wild which is on .world.
InnerScientist@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 171d
I'm just having a laugh
https://python.mzonline.com/sketches/argument/
Warl0k3@lemmy.world · 0 pts · 171d
You know there's two gonewild communities, yes? One on lemmynsfw with a post from 2 days ago and that I'm a frequent contributor to, and one on .world where the last post was 2 months ago (and that I've never interacted with) that doesn't even show up in the search results without some dedicated scrolling. I'm going to say it's effectively impossible to conflate the two accidentally. It's getting kinda creepy how insistant you are that I must be wrong about doing something completely reasonable.
AngryishHumanoid@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 171d
In her* my bad* defense I know it's been down for days, but I clicked a link to a lemmynsfw post this morning and it did open, then I tested it again a while ago and it didn't, so it is weird.
bdonvr@thelemmy.club · 10 pts · 171d
The posts will stay on your instance forever. But as long as the instance is down no new posts will ever come.
Images may or may not show up, depending on if they were externally hosted, got cached, etc.
Warl0k3@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 171d
(Her) Yeah, I can still access all my posts from there (they don't host on lemmynsfw, I think images are hosted on catbox) which is also just thru federation. But there are new posts on Gonewild from two days ago, which doesn't track with the people saying it's been down for four days - I suspect the outage is intermittent, but unless the admin comes forward with info there's no way for anyone to know right now.
Sharkticon@lemmy.zip · 1 pts · 171d
Gone wild is a .world community.
Warl0k3@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 171d
This one? I'm pretty sure it's lemmynsfw.
Warl0k3@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 171d
... Are you one of the lemmynsfw admins and I just don't recognize you?
neidu3@sh.itjust.works · 5 pts · 171d
Could be a federation issue
TheWeirdestCunt@lemmy.today · 19 pts · 171d
Nah the site itself is down
monkeyslikebananas2@lemmy.world · 8 pts · 170d
… said the Romulans.
thermal_shock@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 171d
Use nsfwbrowser.com
Nebraska_Huskers@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 171d
Didn't know that existed. Thanks
SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone · -1 pts · 171d
MilfzillaFuckfox.com
Nebraska_Huskers@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 171d
It's down for my alt, now that I just checked. Haven't been on there for a week
devolution@lemmy.world · -1 pts · 171d
Well... There's one thing reddit does well...
pir8t0x@lemmy.ml · -4 pts · 171d
They want their users to take a break from the act 😹
sauerkrautsaul@lemmus.org · -82 pts · 171d
it sucks.
what would you do to my holes?
would you breed this 40 year old thicc asian milf?
good riddance.
I tried to block the instance but summit doesnt seem to be able or willing or whatever
AngryishHumanoid@lemmy.world · 27 pts · 171d
Create a user from an instance that doesn't federate with it, simple solution.
sauerkrautsaul@lemmus.org · -18 pts · 171d
you have literally no idea how lazy I am
plant@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 28 pts · 171d
I'm so lazy I'd whinge forever
AngryishHumanoid@lemmy.world · 16 pts · 171d
That is the single most relatable thing anyone in the fediverse has ever said.
NotAnonymousAtAll@feddit.org · 8 pts · 171d
Yet here we all are, having put effort that was not strictly required into being principled about something. Otherwise we would still be over there.
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 171d
I kind of want a belt buckle or scarf that says that, maybe a cross stitch. Something that takes way too much effort to make
Dozzi92@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 171d
I know it's probably client related, but to block a sub on Jerboa I click the post, then click the sub, then I can block. Meanwhile, I'm clicking on posts of monster dongs, going to the sub dedicated to monster dongs, just to try to see fewer dongs. And so yeah, my gripe is with my client, but I'd love a long press, block sub, bing bang boom.
OwOarchist@pawb.social · 1 pts · 171d
Same here. I block all kinds of communities, often just because they're not relevant to my interests.
I wish I knew a way to block a community without having to visit that community first, directly from my front page where a post from that community is showing up.
SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 171d
I sat here and wondered for far too long what the meaning of your questions meant hahaha
BigBolillo@mgtowlemmy.org · -111 pts · 171d
Hope it stays down.
Alpha71@lemmy.world · 52 pts · 171d
Interesting. Why?
LibertyLizard@slrpnk.net · 46 pts · 171d
Puritan mind virus is my guess.
AngryishHumanoid@lemmy.world · 26 pts · 171d
Now I wanna watch some sexy Puritan porn. I should search for that on lemmynsfw... I just made myself sad.
Cricket@lemmy.zip · 11 pts · 171d
This reminds me that I think it was on Reddit that at some point I found a Mormon porn community.
treadful@lemmy.zip · 3 pts · 171d
A soaking video sounds kinda hot.
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 171d
Now I gotta write a song about the jump hump
AngryishHumanoid@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 171d
I recall a series of videos that was practically a TV show about sister missionaries who became lesbian lovers.
Emerald@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 170d
Relevant video essay
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=M7i_i-KnDFA
Non-YouTube version
https://kolektiva.media/w/mGf43YP2t6FtjASnTA1APD
BigBolillo@mgtowlemmy.org · -78 pts · 171d
There is already enough of that content on the internet; basically every platform pushes it relentlessly, so we really don’t need it on Lemmy as well. If someone wants to see that they just have to go search it in whatever search engine out there.
Sharkticon@lemmy.zip · 64 pts · 171d
No man I'm pretty sure the point of Lemmy is that little fucking weirdos don't get decide what the rest of us see.
BigBolillo@mgtowlemmy.org · -58 pts · 171d
surewhynotlem@lemmy.world · 37 pts · 171d
Hey man. Just cuz you couldn't handle it. Doesn't mean that normal people can't handle it.
Not everyone's an alcoholic, and we don't need to ban alcohol because you are.
BigBolillo@mgtowlemmy.org · -25 pts · 171d
LMAO
mech@feddit.org · 24 pts · 171d
Why am I not surprised?
Hadriscus@jlai.lu · 15 pts · 171d
had to look this up
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Men_Going_Their_Own_Way
apparently it's some kind of andrew taint shit. I'm surprised this exists on Lemmy.
Anyway
SpookyBogMonster@lemmy.ml · 36 pts · 171d
A MGTOW Lemmy instance? Lmaoo fucking loser
captainlezbian@lemmy.world · 8 pts · 170d
Why don't the mgtows just defederate the porn? Like, they can just go
their own wayawayTisI@lemmy.zip · 5 pts · 171d
What's MGTOW?
Hadriscus@jlai.lu · 9 pts · 171d
It appears to be a movement of closeted gay men. I'd say these people need our support to achieve their final form. Send them pics of your hairy manly feet
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Men_Going_Their_Own_Way
TisI@lemmy.zip · 3 pts · 170d
Wow, that's wild. Thanks for the response.
SpookyBogMonster@lemmy.ml · 9 pts · 170d
It stands for "Men Going Their Own Way". The other person claimed MGTOW freaks are all gay. But really what it boils down to is that MGTOW is a part of a larger constellation of violently misogynistic, fascist adjacent, terminally online "men's movements", to have crawled out of the dark corners of the internet over the last decade or so.
So MGTOW, Incels, pickup artists, and other assorted weirdos all boiled up out of the same primordial internet sludge, and they're trying to hop onto Lemmy. And I think it's imperative that we bully the shit out of these dweebs.
Don't let Nazi's into your bar, or else it'll become a Nazi bar, and all that.
TisI@lemmy.zip · 2 pts · 170d
Thanks for elaborating further. That's really depressing.
waterSticksToMyBalls@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 169d
Omg he's the only poster too
AngryishHumanoid@lemmy.world · 26 pts · 171d
Yeah but isn't that the point of federated services? Join an instance that doesn't federate to the nsfw instances and you don't need to see the content you don't want. Heck I have multiple logins, one for looking at naughty stuff, one for seeing general stuff plus nsfw memes, and a mostly PG login for general use.
ayyy@sh.itjust.works · 19 pts · 171d
Telling others what to do is the only way they can get off.
AngryishHumanoid@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 171d
I can respect that.
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world · 16 pts · 171d
No! More porn, especially furry porn, especially feet stuff, especially on this dude here's feed
Hadriscus@jlai.lu · 5 pts · 171d
Quick, send this guy feet pics
cley_faye@lemmy.world · 9 pts · 171d
So, it clearly would not affect you in any way, shape or form either way, but you still want it gone. Sure buddy, try sounding virtuous in that position.
Phoenix3875@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 171d
Enough…?
Lumisal@lemmy.world · 12 pts · 171d
The site or?...
WiseFirefighter7299@sh.itjust.works · -143 pts · 171d
AngryishHumanoid@lemmy.world · 88 pts · 171d
We're trying but it gets a lot harder with lemmynsfw down.
polotype@lemmy.ml · 32 pts · 171d
But then again, when it gets harder it gets easier √(•_•)√
AngryishHumanoid@lemmy.world · 19 pts · 171d
Hadriscus@jlai.lu · 4 pts · 171d
"ça va, ça vient.... et quand ça vient, ça va... très bien 😏"
tacotroubles@lemmy.world · 58 pts · 171d
Heaven forbid somebody has a hobby
davidagain@lemmy.world · 16 pts · 171d
Er, don't list it as a hobby in your CV, that's my advice.
tacotroubles@lemmy.world · 16 pts · 171d
You can put anything on a CV with some carfeful wording, observe: my hobbies include apreciating fine art in a relaxing enviroment. And rythmic aerobic exercises daily.
davidagain@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 170d
Subtle, yet blatant. I like it.
Oh, actually, during lunch break on the interview day: "I recall that you mentioned enjoying fine art. Who are some of your favourite artists?"
Or
"My sister is into aqua zumba, is that the kind of rhythmic exercise you're into?"
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world · 11 pts · 171d
hobbies: GOON CAVING ALL DAY EVRY DAY
SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 171d
It'll be written in special ink
davidagain@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 170d
Ah yes, the CYMKI ink cartridges!
Warl0k3@lemmy.world · 32 pts · 171d
Why?
spwyll@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 24 pts · 171d
That sounds like an offer...
Sunsofold@lemmings.world · 21 pts · 171d
User name does not check out.
ayyy@sh.itjust.works · 16 pts · 171d
Who hurt you? Why are you lashing out angrily at strangers? Is everything going alright in your life?
ieGod@lemmy.zip · 13 pts · 171d
I'm just here to admire the down votes. Well done.
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world · 6 pts · 171d
I gotta admit, each one is a little more dopamine. I've never been so well baited
SpookyBogMonster@lemmy.ml · 11 pts · 171d
Sometimes you just gotta jork it crazy style, bucko ¯_(ツ)_/¯
SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 1 pts · 171d
Is this like "fuck you kids! Get off my lawn!"?
Or is it more like "fuck you buzz light-year!"?
WiseFirefighter7299@sh.itjust.works · -4 pts · 170d
its like “МАКС ИДИ НАХУЙ”
SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 1 pts · 170d
I'm afraid that's less clear.
WiseFirefighter7299@sh.itjust.works · -3 pts · 170d
translate it.
SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 170d
It just says Max, fuck you. But that makes even less sense, my name isn't Max
WiseFirefighter7299@sh.itjust.works · 2 pts · 166d
that’s a joke only Russians understand, MAX is a messenger that spies on you and the government is forcing it onto every device.
SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 1 pts · 166d
That sounds terrible. How, then, are gooners like MAX?