You make $65,000 (USD đ¤˘) in a dead end career doing nothing but showing up sometimes. Guaranteed employment without change in intensity or salary until retirement in 15 years at age 62. You receive 3 weeks paid vacation, reasonably priced medical, dental, and vision insurance, 401k matched at 2.5%, and virtually unlimited sick days as long as you don't call out too often (>3x month). You are given 6 college credits per semester to use at the local university. You're currently working on a PhD.
You live comfortably and have 1 year's salary saved. Zero dependents.
Do you ride it out, or do you seek a career change before it's too late.
I know, infinite unknown variables, but what would you do regardless?
UPDATE: I'm slightly taken aback by how many of you actually took the time out of your day/evening to reply to my personal crisis. I've think I've replied to everyone, which, in doing so, made this morning surprisingly sunnier. So thanks for that.
Adding some thing I've shared in replies. I'm a homeowner with zero debt aside from a very affordable mortgage. Purchased my car outright new in 2024, had household concerns addressed over past five years (new roof, HVAC systems, sump pump, water heater, shed, remodeled bathrooms), have three degrees, and a lifetime of piss poor fortune.
103 Comments
credo@lemmy.world · 88 pts · 6d
Are you happy?
alianne@lemmy.world · 74 pts · 6d
Regardless of the answer, I'd follow this up with "Are you unhappy?" If you're happy-ish or at least not unhappy, then the peace of mind that comes with job security is a big motivator.
You can always seek happier happiness outside of work so long as the work itself doesn't promptly steal it all when you go in the next day.
credo@lemmy.world · 11 pts · 6d
Itâs an optimization problem.
There are a lot of factors that could go into what you or I end up calling happiness. We probably see things differently after all. Job (life) security, being wild and free, location, family, friends, money.. the list goes on. Optimize for what makes you happy.
Tooks@piefed.social · 19 pts · 6d
I'm a contradiction. I'm no more unhappy than I am happy. Pay isn't the best, but the certainty and creature comforts make it tolerable.
blarghly@lemmy.world · 15 pts · 6d
My take - based on everything you are saying in this thread, it sounds like you aren't happy, but that you are balancing that unhappiness with potential unhappiness you are worried about facing if you were to try for another job.
You talk about pay and creature comforts - but you seem to be avoiding talking about meaning. What is your purpose in life? Because if this job facilitates that purpose, then by all means, keep it. But if it undermines it, then you should ditch it.
Like, imagine you are on your deathbed, and a young highschool boy comes to interview you about your life for a school project. He asks - what did you accomplish? What are you most proud of? What did you learn? What is a story you'd like to tell my class? What are your regrets? If you could do it all over again, what would you do differently?
What do you want your answers to be?
Tooks@piefed.social · 1 pts · 6d
"imagine you are on your deathbed" is exactly where my mindset currently resides. I'm not close enough to the grave to truly be feeling this way, but I do feel like this is crisis-time, and with zero guarantee I'll survive another 20 years, I'm beginning to value and fear time.
All of these suggestions have merit, and I appreciate them immensely. The scenario you painted is one of my greatest fears, with a slightly greater fear being that I don't have answers to any of those questions. I try to live without regret. Do I have regrets? Absolutely. Do I allow them to control my existence? Well, that's what the meds are for.
In all seriousness, I don't know what I want my answers to be. Without answers to the impossible questions (what is the point of all of this?), I struggle to not only find answers, but to formulate questions worthy of answers.
Sanctus@anarchist.nexus · 5 pts · 6d
Only thing that matters
Mr_Wobble@thelemmy.club · 54 pts · 6d
Tooks@piefed.social · 20 pts · 6d
West Virginia-Lite. About 2 hours outside of DC. Homes around here range from dilapidated trailers to McMansions. A cornucopia of ugh.
Witchfire@lemmy.world · 5 pts · 6d
Sounds exactly like where I grew up. I got out of there the first chance I could. Would you consider moving to another state or city? Also, are you in any danger?
Personally, I've hit the point where I no longer want to contribute to some random employer and would rather do something myself. That's another possible direction
naught101@lemmy.world · 14 pts · 6d
Also income matters less in counties with better social support nets and health systems
Carl@anarchist.nexus · 7 pts · 6d
Yeah, this is impossible to answer until we know the cost of living in OPâs area. In my area, $65k would be decent for one person, (slightly above the average for a single individual, but only about half of the average household income) but would basically be hand-to-mouth regarding income and expenses. You wouldnât be able to save anything with $65k, which means youâd have zero wiggle room for future planning or surprise expenses.
If I was able and willing to move to the middle of bumfuck nowhere, I could be really damned comfortable for $65k. But that would be entirely dependent on my job (ability to WFH, and thus able to pack up and move), availability of things like groceries/hospital/etc., and also my willingness to suddenly have an hour drive before Iâm in town. If you hate rural living and are tied down by an in-person job, the âmove where itâs cheapâ idea doesnât really have a lot of options.
corbs132@lemmy.world · 40 pts · 6d
How has nobody suggested the obvious yet? Keep your current job while you interview, test the waters and see what's out there. You might find something you enjoy more with a big enough raise to cover the college credits. You don't have to quit to start looking elsewhere. I know you're talking about career, not just job, but I'd argue the same still applies.
Tooks@piefed.social · 5 pts · 6d
Thanks for this. Justifies some of what I've recently been doing. I've been at this job for almost 20 years. I've been awarded the top employee honor at work, essentially the "outstanding achievement" award for employees. Not sure why. This was just a few years ago, when I essentially quietly quit.
Recently received notification I had been moved to the final search committee for a major leadership role at a neighboring college. Regardless of the outcome, this was primarily an attempt to see what interest there still is out there. This would be a CIO role, one I'm more than capable of running with considering the size and scope of the school. I just don't know if that is even how I want to end my working life.
Nobody prepared me for any of this. I guess none of are technically.
DagwoodIII@piefed.social · 33 pts · 6d
Ride it out. No question. You have unlimited opportunities to grow outside the job.
No employer is going to hire a 47 year old. Too old to train and not enough experience in the field to be a good manager.
If you aren't getting enough excitement from the job, go out and start dating or find a hobby.
Heck, the the year's salary you have saved there are dozens of businesses you could start.
Tooks@piefed.social · 12 pts · 6d
This is more of where I'm leaning, but then I think I'm wasting my potential, without having any idea where to even exhibit potential.
I'm referred to as a "generalist" at work. I'm told that's a good thing.
meco03211@lemmy.world · 11 pts · 6d
Your potential doesn't need to be limited to work. You can exhibit that in a multitude of ways with no connection to a job.
Tooks@piefed.social · 2 pts · 6d
Having a job was my parents only aspiration for me. They thought college was a waste of time, and that I would be better off finding a job in retail, working my way up the ladder into management like my father, and live with self-inflicted misery for the rest of my life.
I've been employed since 12 years old. I'd only been without a job for roughly 18 months back in the early 00s when I was furloughed from a customer service role at a bank. I was given a nice retention and severance bonus, so I took that money and started an associates degree. Finished it in under two years, picked up a part-time gig, transferred credits, worked and earned my bachelors.
I equate success to maintaining a job. Just the way I was wired, I suppose. I would much rather find success in something not involving money, but I can't separate the idea of success from money. Capitalism.
meco03211@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 6d
That still doesn't need to be tied to a 9-5 job. Some advice I'd once heard was to get at least 3 hobbies. One that helps you stay in shape, one that is just pure fun, and one that can earn you some money. Find potential in a hobby that can earn you money.
otacon239@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 6d
Weâve been taught that we need to use all our potential but if you donât gain from it, even spiritually, I truly donât see the point.
Do what makes you happy as long as others donât get hurt. For a lot of people, that conveniently happens to involve helping others. If that isnât yours, then just keep looking until you find it.
You are the only one in control of what you deem ârealized potentialâ.
Tooks@piefed.social · 1 pts · 6d
I can dig this. How do you break that cycle of thinking? That it's acceptable to not capitalize on your potential. Is this in the vein of "life is what you make it?" I'm not making anything with my life.
otacon239@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 5d
But thatâs just it. Whether youâre a gamer killing time at home or a monk in a cave at the top of a mountain meditating, or a frontline Red Cross Volunteer or a treacherous villain, ultimately, if youâre not actively hurting others, you are the only standard you have to measure yourself by.
Whoâs to say what youâre supposed to make? If youâre supposed to make. Weâre all just animals at the end of the day.
You might try looking into Taoism. 365 Tao is how I got started, meant to be read one page a day. Itâs what redirected my energy. It teaches that the ultimate state of being should feel effortless and that there is a path within that will comfortably guide you to happiness and itâs all about finding that path for yourself.
The less you use the world as a measuring stick for yourself, the less you will feel like you donât measure up.
Tooks@piefed.social · 1 pts · 5d
I've been passively studying stoicism for the pest few years, and while some of the strategies meant for dealing with certain aspects of my psyche (like envisioning a stop sign when feeling triggered), others sound a bit too defeatist to me. Committing oneself to any singular concept is the fall of man, so I'll definitely look into Taoism after your recommendation. Thanks!
DagwoodIII@piefed.social · 3 pts · 6d
I've worked in the arts and I've worked in public health.
Yes, you can get a certain satisfaction from helping people, or creating something.
In the end, if you're looking for true fulfillment, it's an inside job.
No career is going to guarantee happiness. Look at superstars like Charlie Sheen or Tiger Woods. The both had all the external validation anyone could ask for.
My best advice is to accept that your going to be on this job, and start looking for answers in otehr places.
Have you tried meditation?
I know it sounds corny, but in the end, happiness is a choice not a destination.
TowardsTheFuture@lemmy.zip · 2 pts · 6d
Yeah potential and job are often mutually exclusive. Unless youâre like a teacher or something where youâre actually helping people and not just a person making boss more money.
Find something you enjoy that can give back to the community. Help establish something cool, or help foster/TNVR cats or dogs, or find something you could do that is fulfilling and helps you not feel like youâve done nothing. Enjoy yourself.
PapaStevesy@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 6d
It doesn't sound like a demanding job, just do whatever you feel exhibits your true potential with all the free time it gives you. If you get good enough that you can make that your career, then it'll be a much less risky move. As long as the work doesn't kill your soul and it's not harmful to society or nature at large, it sounds like a great deal to me.
agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works · 1 pts · 6d
I'm a generalist myself. The upswing is that you can probably choose a new career and train up pretty quick, faster if you make a relatively lateral move to a field related to your current one, especially if you can highlight transferable skills built at work. The downswing is you're likely to get bored of any one job eventually.
It's hard to say exactly what fields are transferrable without knowing the specifics of your current career. You can try to find a line of work that presents diverse stimulating problems and rewards generalist thinking. You can always try to fulfill your potential outside of work, since it sounds like the job isn't very taxing. Pick up a productive hobby or start volunteering or get politically active or something. Join an organization devoted to making a positive impact and contribute your time and effort. Maybe identify something you do really well and teach other people how to do it. As a generalist I've done a bit of all of these things, and they all bring some degree of fulfillment, some sense of effectively implementing my potential.
Tooks@piefed.social · 1 pts · 6d
Thanks! Excellent suggestions on finding one's potential outside of employment. I need hobbies, friends, activities. I'm in a rut socially. I abandoned all social media around 2020 when the insane publicly identified a corrupt, sociopathic, pedophile and chose to make him a leader. My return to socials happened just this year, and you're looking at the extent of it now.
Unfortunate events and failed relationships have guided me to this point socially. Nothing ever within my control, just the way things played out. But these instances cost me some serious time and wasted perspective. Example, I was once a family man. Thought that was my calling. Being a father. A husband. Didn't work out. She discovered she was poly following our daughter's birth. Infidelity, I try to divorce her, turns out we were never legally married despite having an officiated ceremony, reception, the whole nine. During the divorce process, it was discovered the state had no record of our marriage as the certificate had never been returned. Our officiant had us sign the documents immediately after the ceremony, and that was the last we saw them. So all of the family dynamics that play into a divorce were void. She sold the house, gained custody (VA loves to give custody to the mother, especially if they make more $$$) and moved away with our daughter just far enough to make scheduled visitation a challenge. I believe this was intentional, as she was not keen to me being disapproving of her poly lifestyle. She's insane.
RBWells@lemmy.world · 8 pts · 6d
The fuck? I got my job around that age. And we hired our temp who is at least 65. And a treasury manager over 60 too.
It's harder, I'm sure. But 47 is absolutely NOT too old to change careers, that's nonsense.
Tooks@piefed.social · 3 pts · 6d
Thanks for this! 47 has me feeling like I have one foot in the grave. I think that's one of the reasons I'm pursuing this PhD. I mean, it's free, I have oodles of on-the-clock time to do the work (7 hours a day), and it puts me back in school, which I seem to equate to youth. I'm not the oldest in the program either, which makes me feel a bit lighter in the casket.
pHr34kY@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 6d
I would totally start a side hustle if I was set up like this. I'd be thinking of a project where immediate ROI didn't matter, and I could take as long as I want before it produces an income.
atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works · 29 pts · 6d
As somebody who is quickly coming up on 2 years of unemployment, my recommendation is not to fuck with the job market right now even with a yearâs expenses covered.
Tooks@piefed.social · 7 pts · 6d
Almost 20 years at my current employer. Stepping away without something else already lined-up sounds like career suicide. Yet another reason I'm hesitant to shake things up.
TargaryenTKE@lemmy.world · 21 pts · 5d
Dude, that job pays THREE TIMES as well as the equally-dead one I currently have (even more if you include benefits). Just accept the good fortune bestowed upon you, get paid to do practically nothing, and find a new hobby to invest all your new free time into. Like, how is this even a question?
Edit: I redid the math and turns out you're making 3x what I do, not the 2x that I originally said
CrabAndBroom@lemmy.ml · 5 pts · 5d
That was my thought too lol, this is essentially my job but with better pay and benefits.
doingthestuff@lemy.lol · 2 pts · 4d
I'll chime in as another in a job with worse pay and benefits going nowhere.
skisnow@lemmy.ca · 16 pts · 6d
"virtually unlimited" = 36 days a year
Tooks@piefed.social · 4 pts · 6d
Yeah, I'm cringing a bit at my "virtually unlimited" comment. For this situation, I'm currently sitting on roughly 500 hours of PTO medical leave.
BurntWits@sh.itjust.works · 3 pts · 5d
I get 2 per year so 36 would feel like unlimited.
skisnow@lemmy.ca · 3 pts · 5d
yeah sorry I keep forgetting not everyone lives in Europe
arotrios@lemmy.world · 13 pts · 6d
Finish the PhD, then get a new job.
$65k will be worth half of what it is or less in 10 years. You will, at best, get a raise of about 5% per year. You will see a 20% - 30% raise if you jump ship with the PhD provided you go for corporate positions (you'll barely be treading water if you decide to teach).
The stability of the current job is an illusion - they will let you go the moment it becomes profitable for them to do so. The only person who can ensure you stability is you, and the only way you can do that is by maximizing your earning potential so you have enough wealth to survive a jobless period. Do not rely on unemployment benefits - they're a joke and often arrive as much as a year late.
Source: I took the stable route at that same salary number. Was laid off after 10 years during COVID, while I was sick. My next position I jumped from 65k to 90k, and with the next to 110k within three years. It took over 18 months for me to receive my unemployment benefits.
Companies have no loyalty to you. You are a resource to be exploited. Treat them the same way, and you'll be much wealthier and likely happier for it.
Avicenna@programming.dev · 11 pts · 6d
If you are already doing a PhD you are probably lucky to have a job that pays reasonably without requiring much. But even if you decide to change jobs, don't leave till you are guaranteed another job.
communist@lemmy.frozeninferno.xyz · 10 pts · 5d
Holy shit I would realize I no longer have any real problems in life and figure out what makes me happy with all of that free time
CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org · 9 pts · 6d
So, what am "I" hoping for, I guess? More money, more possibility for advancement? What other jobs could I get?
Not to be a dick, but the median personal income for a full-time employee in the US is ~$55,000, and half are definitionally below that. If you live in San Fransisco and are working towards your PhD in data science, I guess sure, vomiting face, but that detail wasn't in there.
Tooks@piefed.social · 2 pts · 6d
Yep, sorry about that. I was trying to make this sound as unrelated to my actual situation as possible when I originally posted. Gave up the ghost on that almost immediately. WV eastern panhandle is where I'm located. Work in VA. On the edge of what they call the DMV (Delaware, Maryland, VA). Yes, they omit the omnipresent WV lurking just alongside big money northern VA in the colloquialism. Our area has just as many people commuting to DC for six figures, as we have folks living in squalor. It's definitely WV up in here, but maybe a little shinier.
rekabis@lemmy.ca · 9 pts · 6d
Youâre focusing too much on what you are supposed to do and too little on what you could be doing.
I would grab this with both hands. Max out the education, and work on side projects that donât impact the day job. I mean, that is what the âshow up sometimesâ means, right? Ya gotta warm the seat but you donât have much to do? So fill that time with things that improve your skills!
Tooks@piefed.social · 4 pts · 6d
Absolutely, but man is it a hard habit to break. Obviously one I'm struggling to break myself. I literally have a text note stating "Do what you want and do it for fun" on my phone's lock screen and home screen. I'm trying my best to change my way of thinking about all of this, and rather lean into a "fuck it, it's a paycheck, (most) everyone needs one, use all the money for fun and live deliciously because at least in my inevitable end, it will all just go to some charity.
Glytch@lemmy.world · 7 pts · 4d
I would kill for that level of financial stability. Ride it out and find passion in hobbies outside of work.
greatwhitebuffalo41@slrpnk.net · 6 pts · 6d
Are you looking for advice? Cause that's how it sounds lol. The answer and reasons are different for everyone.
Ultimately the question is, how does the job make you feel? If I hate getting up everyday to go to work, I'm probably going to at least look at my options if not straight run out of there crying.
If it's ok but nothing too exciting. I don't dread it but, I also don't look forward to it, I might stay. But only if I can find a way to spice it up a bit. Maybe that's a new podcast to listen to while working. Maybe it's finding something to do in my down time, maybe it's researching a new hobby or something.
If I like the job but I'm not going anywhere but I'm that close to retirement, I'm going to probably stay. Until they give me a reason to hate it. Then, I'm out.
Tooks@piefed.social · 2 pts · 6d
I am looking for advice, and yes, this is totally my current situation.
greatwhitebuffalo41@slrpnk.net · 1 pts · 4d
Then I think it boils down to, are you happy? And if not, is it fixable while being there? And if not, leaving might be the best option.
farmgineer@nord.pub · 5 pts · 6d
If they allow remote work, I'll take it since I'm about to lose my job and, with the shitty USD <-> JPY rate, I only made slightly under that last year.
Were I you, though, I'd be looking.
Tooks@piefed.social · 6 pts · 6d
Should have added the remote schedule. Two days in office, three remote. No device monitoring. Round trip commute 70 minutes.
rumschlumpel@feddit.org · 5 pts · 6d
Disclaimer: No idea what amout of wealth that translates to in your specific location.
I think the work itself really does matter, what use is wealth if the job is destroying your mental or physical health? What you'll do with that depends on what other (theoretcially) marketable skills you have, how the actual market for those skills is right now, and how long it would take to take any relevant training (that's on your own time, not while you're already employed). Do you have any idea what you'd do instead of your job?
Also, how certain are you that you actually get to retire at 62? 15 years is a long time for some asshole politician to decide that whatever retirement plan you may have isn't worth the paper it's printed on ...
Afflictedlife@lemmy.ml · 4 pts · 6d
52,832 more dollars a year than I survive on. Unless you think your job will evaporate soon you have a pretty good thing. Get your PhD. Keep your job as long as you can. Jumping at somthing new has a very good chance of blowing up in your face in this market. Caveat, I don't work so what do I know? But if you aren't severely depressed about it I'd stay
Canconda@lemmy.ca · 4 pts · 6d
Whatever is driving this feeling... lean into it bro.
Tooks@piefed.social · 2 pts · 6d
I really feel your comment. Now to figure out what to lean into.
Canconda@lemmy.ca · 1 pts · 6d
World is your oyster
bigfish@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 0 pts · 6d
Leaning into a midlife crisis is either a great or terrible idea... Or maybe OP will just get a new car and a gym habit out of it?
HubertManne@piefed.social · 4 pts · 6d
Thing is for me personally I have a dependent and im in the red if I make somewhere under 90k unless they pay all medical expenses. It would not work for me it would be a slow death.
Tooks@piefed.social · 2 pts · 6d
Experiencing the sensation of slow death is brutal.
ultranaut@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 6d
Unless your salary is inflation adjusted over those 15 years, you are going to end up in a bad place if you ride it out. I personally couldn't make it on $65k and would be looking to either supplement my income or find a higher paying job ASAP. If it was a reasonable income for where I live and covered my bills, and resulted in me being able to still afford retiring at 62, I might stick with it if it wasn't driving me totally crazy with boredom.
jj4211@lemmy.world · 4 pts · 6d
65k without even Inflation adjustment could be rough...
But this is at 47, much depends on what happened up to this point. For example if you had a very strong run and had 2 mil on a 401k already.. I might be tempted to ride it out. I actually kind of like the idea of taking classes that I just feel like taking. Also depends on the family situation.
I've actually been imagining this sort of scenario for finishing out my career. I keep imagining my luck running out and needing to find something, anything to bridge me to retirement. Ideally with less office politics. Working at a university for access to classes has been on the list of fallback careers, under the hope that my 401k can largely take care of itself now.
Tooks@piefed.social · 2 pts · 6d
Thanks for sharing your current thought process on the scenario. It feels like hanging in there is the same as giving-up sometimes. But then I think, why do I want more work and responsibility if I'm living comfortably where I'm at?
It's a personal ethics issue. I want to crush the capitalist machine and steal time, but I also feel like I have so much more to offer to the world. I'm just not sure what that involves. My interests and hobbies haven't changed in decades (aside from quitting the drink). Zero aspiration.
Dookieman12@piefed.social · 3 pts · 6d
Learn new skills. Learn to weld. Learn to solder. Learn to wire up basic electronics. Learn how to build radios. Go camping. Adopt a dog from the shelter and see how many tricks you can teach them. Learn and master anything. Creation is the key to fulfillment and the antidote to consumption. Meet younger people and talk to them about how they can and why they should dismantle the capitalist machine.
Tooks@piefed.social · 1 pts · 6d
Soldering. I have two kits. From the little I've watched online, I've learned my father soldered incorrectly his entire life. Flux? Never heard of the guy. I have three dualsense controllers with drift, and three sets of replacement sticks. Requires soldering. Everything ready to go, no motivation to do any of it.
BoxOfFeet@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 5d
I make a bit of a ritual out of my projects, the setup is half the fun. Taking it slow, picking thr right tip for my iron. Thoroughly cleaning the area of the board I'm working on. Actually my whole work area gets clean and organized. Like, clean enough to film a YouTube video. Getting all the old solder off with my desoldering wick. Using my vintage Dazor magnifying lamp. Using my little tiny tweezers to place things just right. The soldering itself goes rather quickly. But the ritual is fun.
BananaLama@lemmy.ml · 4 pts · 5d
Seems like you already made your decision.
Lets say you change careers and want to come back to your current career at this or another company. Would that be feasible. If yes, you literally have nothing to lose.
If not, you have to be a bit more careful picking your new path but also little to lose
CompactFlax@discuss.tchncs.de · 4 pts · 6d
No dependents? Big.
Do you have shelter and food accounted for in a reliable way? Thatâs really what matters.
Tooks@piefed.social · 1 pts · 6d
Homeowner, 1500 sq ft, single family home. Built in early 00s. Been here for almost 9 years.
ExLisper@lemmy.curiana.net · 4 pts · 6d
I would spend all the time I can contributing to open source projects.
tpyoman@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 6d
Strictly me with my life experience, at 20 I would try and find something else more exciting and fulfilling, today in my mind theories I would stay especially with my phd in progress it would give me time to do it properly, and give me enough money to at least stay alive, and not be pressured into any bullshit stressful situation at work which has been my experience with jobs so far.
Tooks@piefed.social · 2 pts · 6d
At 20, I thought there was a future as a professional partier. Sounds like you have your head on straight. Keep up the good work!!
Grimy@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 6d
What does showing up entail here? How many hours a week? Use the time to slowly build towards another career, something that uses both so you don't start at square one maybe.
Pyr_Pressure@lemmy.ca · 3 pts · 5d
Just submitted a resume yesterday. Almost exact situation I'm in.
Seasm0ke@lemmy.world · 3 pts · 6d
My 2 cents, these jobs don't last forever. The type of companies with unlimited PTO or sick plans usually will lay off people in this position eventually, or get acquired, shutter offerings etc. Best to improve yourself while you have the time. Prep for a career change, get an MBA or another cert. Check out WGU and see if you can commit the time. Ride it out sure but once it dries up you're kind of assed out man. Much harder to find a job in your 50s even in mamagement
Tooks@piefed.social · 1 pts · 6d
Excellent points. I would love to start my own side hustle, perhaps consulting, but I literally don't know the first thing about any of that. I do however know the ins and outs of a 501(c)(3). Capstone for my MS was developing a strategic plan for a local non-profit. They loved it so much, they made me a Board member. Did that for three years before realizing it was more of a social club for white retired women. Resigned from the org, and two years later they closed up shop. Turns out, they were banking on gaining a pipe dream celebrity endorsement (Ellen DeGeneres of all inhuman cretins) instead of following the strategic plan.
Fizz@lemmy.nz · 3 pts · 5d
Career change. Better to try improve than to do the same thing over and over. Not even about the pay just the change.
Tooks@piefed.social · 1 pts · 5d
I'm looking to transition to an educator role with the PhD. It would be a bump of maybe $20k-$25k. I never imagined making six figures, and I grew up in a fake rich family (crippling debt), so anything above $80k would be mind-blowing. The faculty position would require more "work," but it would probably be more rewarding.
Octavio@piefed.social · 2 pts · 6d
Iâd shoot my shot. If Iâm working towards a PhD I am too smart to waste my life working a boring job for a comfortable but not great salary.
Tooks@piefed.social · 2 pts · 6d
Best compliment I've received in what seems to be a lifetime. Unfortunately, the boring job provides the means to earn the PhD. So I would need to stick it out at least another 3.5 years. Allowing time for absurdities, I'm giving myself until age 52 to complete it. Need a deadline or I'll just chip away at it forever.
Dookieman12@piefed.social · 2 pts · 6d
Despite having your needs satisfied, you sound unfulfilled. More money won't necessarily change that.
People say, "Do what you love and you'll never work a day in your life," but the truth is the opposite. When you do something every day, you become good at it. That skill, that proficiency fosters enjoyment and leads to us loving what we do. I'm not in my career field because I love it, I love what i do because I'm very good at it and mastery is its own reward.
Are you certain there's no way to monetize your PhD? Surely you could teach with those credentials?
Tooks@piefed.social · 1 pts · 6d
Teaching is likely where I will end up. I'm already responsible for employee onboarding (it's an email), and have conducted many public speaking affairs, most involving some new change to something nobody is going to love. Or "special projects" as they like to call them. The projects I'm given are those others have failed because I'm a mark for getting stuff done. I could teach as an adjunct now with my masters, but the pay is abysmal.
RBWells@lemmy.world · 2 pts · 6d
Depends, of course. I'm not personally wildly ambitious about work so that would be fine with me. If no raise though, that money will not be enough in 15 years. So it would need to come with raises to meet inflation at least.
Retirement at 62 would be a big upgrade from what I expect to be able to do, but I did raise a lot of kids.
TheMinions@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 2 pts · 6d
Is it work from home? Might be able to swing a second job during the do nothing 8-5 to bump up the numbers if youâre able.
muffedtrims@lemmy.world · 1 pts · 6d
https://overemployed.com/
ToiletFlushShowerScream@piefed.world · 2 pts · 6d
Do you absolutely LOATHE your life right now the way it is? Do you regret EVERY choice you ever made in your life that steered you to where you are now? If yes, then you are probably part of the majority of Americans your age. Go ahead and look for change, because no matter what happens, you wonât miss where you are now.
BUT if you answered no, then congratulations, you are happier than most people your age, and keep looking for other ways to find joy because more than likely youâll end up in a worse spot for you and regret ever shaking things up.
Tooks@piefed.social · 0 pts · 6d
I am both these. Happy(ish), yet unsatisfied. But I think I'm unsatisfied because my brain insists on holding me to a level of excellence I cannot exhibit let alone maintain.
ToiletFlushShowerScream@piefed.world · 1 pts · 5d
Firstly, if you are anything like me, you'll likely never reach that feeling - there will always be something more you feel could be accomplishing no matter how successful. But that's me. Secondly, this may not be the best job market to be making a life sea change. Thirdly, congrats on the soon to be PhD, that will give you some leverage in any future professional adventures. I wouldn't make any moves until you have that in your Bat Utility Belt -If that metaphor makes any sense. You didn't mention any significant pressures of debt or children or health issues, so I assume your in a good spot and not under time pressures. So you've got time to fully plan any next adventures. Maybe during the planning process you'll better realize whether it's something you are willing to risk.
shirasho@feddit.online · 2 pts · 6d
I would ride it out assuming inflation and rising cost of living didn't exist. Well, those things do exist. The question you need to ask yourself is if you would be unhappy living with the spending power of ~60% of what your spending power is now. If the answer is anything other than a solid yes then you should be looking.
Finish up any schooling and get a new job lined up before you leave your current job. The current job market is incredibly toxic and near impossible to navigate. People are posting vague job descriptions they have no intentions of hiring for to make it look like they are growing when they are really stagnating. AI is being used to push highly skilled workers back into the market.
Tooks@piefed.social · 1 pts · 5d
Thanks for the advice, and for insight on the job market.
Oddly enough, just did the math and ~60% spending power in 15 years alongside what I save up to that point might actually be doable. I have zero debt aside from the mortgage (costing significantly less than current avg rent costs), a car purchased outright new in 2024, all major household concerns addressed over past five years (new roof, new HVAC systems, new sump pump, renovated bathrooms, new 10x10 shed).
I believe I'm dying, but my doctor thinks otherwise. Clean bill of health with all milestone checklist procedures completed. Family life expectancy is the kinda average 68-74 (cancer, heart disease).
Of course the unknown and the $$$$ that requires, but otherwise, doable?
ada@piefed.blahaj.zone · 2 pts · 6d
This pretty much was my job up until recently, though we get better leave than that in Australia.
missingno@fedia.io · 2 pts · 6d
Sounds a hell of a lot better than the dead end job I just left. Are they hiring?
Tooks@piefed.social · 1 pts · 5d
Our entry level positions begin at $35k. You don't want this smoke. đ
iatenine@piefed.social · 1 pts · 6d
I don't think I'd bother working on a PhD 15 years from retirement
isleepinahammock@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 3 pts · 6d
Really depends on why you're doing it, I would say.
Tooks@piefed.social · 1 pts · 5d
I'm doing it for a few reasons. 1) It's free education and I enjoy learning, 2) Spite (my immediate supervisor was promoted over me with a high school diploma), 3) I'm hoping it will both give me something to do over the next few years AND give me the sensation of fulfillment or satisfaction knowing I have reached and completed the highest level of post secondary education. An accomplishment I'm hoping I can hang a hat on. I think this is subconsciously the real reason.
SreudianFlip@sh.itjust.works · 1 pts · 6d
I have a friend who was a carpenter and musician and got a phd at 45, wound up head of a university department 10 years later, moved to a prestigious university then retired. He could have kept working like a lot of profs but the second career was long enough.
ryannathans@aussie.zone · 1 pts · 6d
That sounds a lot like freedom, if you're working on a PhD idk why you'd risk losing up that source of income
Keep an emergency fund and put the rest of the savings into a low fee ETF
spectrums_coherence@piefed.social · 1 pts · 6d
You are working on a PhD, depends on the subject and your effort, you likely will have a better job in no time, right :)
Tooks@piefed.social · 2 pts · 6d
You'll love this. Two years ago on the last cycle of promotions after our long time director finally retired, I was set to advance from an assistant director to a director role. This would either have been the primary CIO position, or a second in charge role. Well, the CIO position was given to a guy the former boss had been priming for the role (god fearing, white, christian) for no good reason aside from him having a PhD. Fine, earned, I suppose. Well that should certainly align me for the second in charge seeing as I have the next highest level of education completed (three degrees: AS, BS, MS).
screeching brakesNOPE! The new director instead promotes his best buddy to director over me. Nepotism, not fine, but it exists. Here's the kicker, the guy he promoted not only has fewer years with our employer, his highest level of completed education is high school. That's right. It's all in who you blow. (they drive matching Subarus)Immediate reply is probably, "Why are you still there?"
Krusty@quokk.au · 1 pts · 6d
Another word for scholarship is leisure.
Enjoy it while it lasts.
UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world · -1 pts · 6d
Never hurts to look.
I think the better question is "What offer would cause you to leave the position?"
At 47? That sounds pretty bleak from a retirement perspective. If I could find a job in the six figure range, I'd bounce in a heartbeat.
I had a job kinda-sorta similar to this when I was in my 20s. Best decision I every made was to jump to a higher paying job at a faster growing company in the O&G sector. Ultimately tripled my salary over ten years, and I'm sitting on well more than one year's salary with all the same benefits and some additional perks.
What are you even going to do with a PhD once you've finally got it? This seems like a hobby more than a career plan.
python@lemmy.world · -2 pts · 6d
Tooks@piefed.social · 1 pts · 5d
I'm always looking for new opportunities. Of the 15 years, I would be willing to sacrifice 5 to learn a trade of some sort, and then the remaining 10 (or more if I like the work or start my own business) working in that field. The unknown is just so f'n scary at my age. What happens when I follow my dreams (there are none) or pivot into a financial disaster of my own doing and end up struggling through poverty in my later years? My safety net is my savings. Not much of a net. No family remaining. Literally no friends. Transplant to this area 19 years ago and wound up alone after several absurd failures. Never took the time to make friends, since I believed my wife-not-wife's theory of not needing anything but each other. She loved adultery.